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Just wanted to introduce myself.

LIMomLIMom
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So my husband moved out after yet another fight last sunday. First of course he did what any 37 year old man does and ran home to mommy who lives 3 hours away. Now he has been back since tuesday and is living with grandama who is 80+ years old and may have lung cancer again. He has seen my 3 boys ages 13,3, & 9 mths for less then 12 full hours in the last week. He does not call to check on them nor does he really give a sh*t right now. Oh, but when we spoke he wanted me to know that he's not sure what he wants in reguards to our marriage. I have posted here before with some of what has gone on, but basically he is a very depressed person who refuses to believe anything could be wronge with him. Aparently it is all me. I am sure you have all heard that one at least once. I am ready to fall on my face, but with no help from anyone I can't. Wish me luck in this journey it's gonna definatly get a little crazy.
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  • Time2RewindTime2Rewind
    Yes, I totally feel for you. My X is bipolar...and probably depressed, too...and yet he seems to think that I'M the one with the problems. He also runs to his mother...and grandmother when we get in fights. Maybe it's best that he's out of the house, considering you have 3 young boys. That's can't be the type of role model you want for them. That's how I try to look at it anyway. In either case, I wish you tons of luck...and sleep!!! I admire you...I only have 1 and I wonder how I'm going to do it sometimes!
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  • achase123achase123
    I am sorry for the circumstances.  Have you suggested solo counseling for him?  Is he on medication?
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  • LIMomLIMom
    I suggested it and he is thinking about it. He refuses to take meds because he doesn't think he needs them. I feel we are completly done since he hasn't even really paid any attention to our kids and he is hurting them. This might sound stupid, but I could get past him hurting me but not the kids.
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  • peeps61308peeps61308 member

    imageLIMom:
    I suggested it and he is thinking about it. He refuses to take meds because he doesn't think he needs them. I feel we are completly done since he hasn't even really paid any attention to our kids and he is hurting them. This might sound stupid, but I could get past him hurting me but not the kids.

    Definitely doesn't sound stupid. DB was a douche to me, but I could have lived with that. How he has treated his daughter, makes me want him to rot in hell.

    I guess it is easier to blame everything on the other person so you don't have to take responsibility for your actions. I'm just glad I can't understand their reasoning...

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