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DH's unemployed friend who still lives with parents is going to be a dad... (vent)

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and DH couldn't understand why I wasn't happy for him when I heard the news last night.  I tried to explain to DH is that I want people to get their *** together before they have kids... which is an attitude I had even before all this IF business.

PS--friend is not unemployed due to the economy.  He's a smart guy but keeps quitting jobs and saying things like "9-5 isn't for me" and "I'm waiting for the right opportunity", which is okay when you are 22, but less okay when you are 32.

DS #1 on the way after 2 cycles of ART (IVF+FET) EDD 7/3/11
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Re: DH's unemployed friend who still lives with parents is going to be a dad... (vent)

  • oboediva31oboediva31

    I totally understand that. It's like people who think that having a baby will "fix" their relationship.

    What's the deal with the mother? I hope at least one of them has their sh*t together! 

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  • Mommyof2dogs1Mommyof2dogs1 member
    I'm sorry. {hugs} I know that's a tough blow at this time.
    3/09 off BCP TTC 6/09 DX PCOS 9/09, endometriosis, bicornuate uterus DH- All #'s are above normal! 1500 mg Metformin 6 rounds of Clomid + HCG trigger- All BFN 8/10 IUI #1 Gonal F + Ovidrel BFN 9/10 On a much needed break 10/10 Laparoscopy 11/10- 6/11 IUI #2-4 Gonal F, Ovidrel, and progesterone, produced 4-8 follies each cycle, all BFN 8/11 IVF #1 R-20, M-17, F W/ICSI 2 :( 3dt of a 4 cell and 7 cell BFP!!!! BETA #1 115, #2 488, #3 2900 -SAIFAW- PAIFAW- Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • ladyprofladyprof member
    Is he like that guy in Christmas Vacation? "He's holding out for a position in management." :-)
    After 2 losses, IVF #2 brought us our little boys.
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    Now we're waiting on our miracle baby ... a little GIRL!!!

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