My husband and I have had a really hard time coming up with a boy name option for this baby and since we may be going Team Green, we would need to at least narrow down names for a boy and a girl.
We want to include at least one family name and we really like John Charles (Charles is my grandfather's middle name and my deceased brother's first name), but we are considering calling him "Jack," which was my other grandfather's name.
I know Jack has long been considered a common nickname for John, but I'm a little worried that it's not as common these days and it might confuse people more than a normal nickname would.
So I guess my question is, do YOU think of Jack as a nickname for John and would the nickname make sense to you, or would you be scratching your head and wondering if we'd lost our minds if you were our friends.
I'm just curious
(FWIW, my paternal grandfather's name was Hugh Denford, and he was called Jack all his life, which I think is really odd especially since he had no idea where the nickname came from.)
Re: "Jack" as a nickname for John
But you do recognize Jack as a nickname for John, which is what I wanted to know. So this does help...thanks.
I don't know...because I don't want to, I guess. I just don't like the name Jack Charles...I like the more formal John Charles as a given name even if he's not going to be called that. It's just a personal preference.
This is one I've never understood. To me, a nickname is something shorter than the original, for example, Ben/Benjamin, Charlie/Charles, Matt/Matthew, etc.
FWIW, I absolutely love both names. John Charles is a great name, whether you call him John, Jack, J.C., or Bill.
I definitely recognize Jack as a nickname for John. It has been that way for centuries, so anyone who is confused is either not at all familiar with English-language names or has not been paying attention.
I agree w/ you and pp ? the formal name w/ a nickname is the way to go.
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Yes, I have two great uncles named John that go by Jack. I have no problem with it but my DH always thinks it's a bit strange. I think Jack is becoming a more popular nn for Jackson, but I like the name John better than Jackson.
I once saw a man at airport security arguing with the TSA guy because his boarding pass said "Jack", but his ID said John. The TSA guy said he had never heard of that as a nn for John and I was baffled. I don't know if they ended up letting him on the flight or not! This is is coming from someone who's formal first name is Beryl, but goes by Beth. hahah
This 100%. I don't know how anyone could not recognize Jack as a nn for John. Jack as a standalone name really bugs me for some reason.
My son is Jack, real name John Edward. Hisdadsname Mydadsname. It was a compromise.
I say go for it :-)
Agreed!
I love John w/ the nn Jack!
But unfortunately, I wouldn't use it, because he'd still blend right in with all the other Jacksons, Jaxsons, Jaxsons, Jaxs, and "Just Jack"s
Ladies, if you have a child with a nn, please be sure to teach them in which situations he or she should use his or her given/formal name.