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TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
My DD
First, let me say that my apology still stands as it is.. a sincere apology. I posted it last night and had it up for several hours.. 9 people responded either a thumbs up or a thank you. I appreiciated that. However, over 60 people viewed it and didnt even bother with it at all. Felt snubbed that all those people were all about flaming me but not so much for my apology And then I posted something totally not related to fertiltiy and no one person chose to respond. I deleted the apology thinking no one is going to care or even notice.
I see how several people is all about flaming me today when suntoto asked about my DD. That was completely inappropriate... I apologized. Drop it already. You ladies are a wonderful support system. I really wanted to start over again... are you ladies even going to make that possible?
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Re: My DD
actually, it's not inappropriate. Maybe some didn't feel that your apology was sincere and I think it's up to each individual to decide whether it felt sincere to them or not. Plus, you have to remember that there is a TON of lurking on these boards, people find drama interesting and that was drama.
I think it absolutely would have been possible for you to come back and post again, most people, if not all would have gotten over it. You gave your apology post a few hours to sink in.......then deleted. In my opinion that's what's inappropriate.
That's a good way to make a "fresh start".
Everyone gets more views than replies! We have a lot of sick lurkers that like to take lookie-loos at our bitter misery.
Just to re-cap...
First you call us bitter and say that's the reason for any and all of our fertility issues
Then you post like nothing ever happened, no apology, no nothing and you got called out
Then you make several negative comments directly to a few women on this board
Then you post an apology (5 minutes after above comments)
Then you DD it and the post you got called out in
Then, you come back saying you DD'd because there were too many views and not enough replies and you felt slighted
Then, you pull the bitter card....again.
I don't believe your apology was sincere because you were just insulting people a few minutes prior to it and you deleted it. And really, you were insulted by views and not posts? There are lurkers on all the boards and many who like drama, not to mention that people might read a post more than once. That was nothing about you. And the bachelor pad post, I've never seen it or heard of it, so why would I comment?
You're telling us to drop it, but clearly you were so upset that you had to DD two posts. So you continue to create issues, and aren't dropping it yourself.
I pretty much think you're nuts at this point. And you keep insulting us and clearly have issues with us, so just leave the damn board. But of course, you'll stick around because clearly you get off on creating drama.
Missed m/c 11.09 | Missed m/c 3.10 | We miss you & love you so.
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Formerly toddandjulie
OMG get over yourself. You said stupid offensive stuff on several posts, then made a half assed apology after being told you should apologize (which as "sincere" you claim it is, rings false), then DD.
Pardon me if we don't all trip over ourselves to welcome you back.
FWIW, no, I do not watch The Bachelor, I hate that show. seriously I would rather watch a cat hack up a hairball.
Ooh...I believe you have officially turned into a troll.
And you know this...how? Get over yourself. LET.IT.GO.
BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12
You are all a whole bunch of bitters. I was right along. But news flash, this board is full of negative engery. Negative engery is not gonna help get you KU. Have a nice life, B!tches.
I can admit that I've clicked on this post by itself 5 or 6 times to see what everyone else wrote. I have some very entertaining bumpie friends. And as for lurkers--if you go to the MC/PL board, you can see how many sick fvcks like to lurk. Get over yourself.
I think you are the one with the negative energy.
BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12
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Aaaand there's the last nail in the coffin.
I was someone who clicked on the apology and didn't respond. Frankly I wasn't sure it was sincere and decided to withhold judgement. If you would have just been cool then we would have been straight eventually.
Do me a favor. Click back to the TTCAL6+ main page and just look down the list at "views" vs. "replies"... the view count is always MUCH higher
And btw - are you drunk or something? Cause your typos in this thread are NUTS!
Ok. Enough is enough. I wonder what your real life is like if you continue to play this way in the virtual world. If you're not adult enough to make a sincere apology, the way we do in the grown-up world, then move on. The only one with negative energy throughout this drama you've caused is clearly you.
Edited: Spelling.
BFP #1: 07/10/2009, Missed m/c, D&C 08/12/2009
BFP #2: 01/31/2010, Identical Twins died in utero due to TTTS, D&E 05/19/2010
BFP #3: 09/16/2010, natural m/c 9/21/2010
PCOS & Bocornuate Uterus Dx 1.4.2011
BFP #4: 01/11/2011
Gracie, you waited a little over 10 minutes and then posted that no one was replying?
No one, for the record, reads to me as more bitter than you are. You have spent a lot of time and energy acting like a rabid idiot, and you lack self awareness to the extent that it's kind of sad and very maddening. There's no excuse for your behavior. Stay or go. I no longer care in the slightest. I refuse to spend anymore of my time dwelling on you or your opinions, as they have no bearing on my life or the lives of my friends.
Thanks for this info, Graciestars. I'm visiting my first RE in a few days. I'll make sure to let him know of this new theory you have into The Deleterious Effects of Internet Negativity Upon Conception Attempts of Reproductively Mature Women. I have a feeling it will blow his freaking mind.
PS-- From where I sit, this board has been a pretty awesome source of positive energy the last almost-year I've been posting. But then again, I'm not a douche and I don't piss people off with stupid sh!t-stirring.
Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11
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Oh... wow. Gracie, Gracie, Gracie.
Thank you, sincerely, for proving what a twat you are. You've made it much easier to ignore anything and everything your sorry a$$ posts.
Toodles!
P.S. Go choke on your own bitterness. You're obviously overflowing with it.
Wow. I didn't get involved in any of this, at any point along the way. Not in the original post that started with poor Heather, not in your post blanketing everyone here as bitter-and-therefore-infertile, none of it. So I didn't chime in on your apology post either. (Quite frankly, by the by, I'm not offended by being called bitter. I'm all for calling a spade a spade, and I am bitter. I admit it. I accept it. I'm working on it. Thanks for your concern. But IMO, your apology wasn't to me, it was to the girls who were offended. Which I was not.)
But of course I followed the threads. Just like I follow everything else on this board, whether I feel compelled to comment or not.
But now it was b!tchyy of me to NOT want to get involved in any of the drama, at any step of the way? Really? Take your pick. Does posting and participating in the drama make one a bitter b!tch, or does avoiding it make one a bitter b!tch? Seems no one can win with you.
Really??? I didn't see your apology, and I lurk here every day, and post here and there when I feel I can provide support to those that are still here from when I was. You didn't even give any one a chance to see your apology OR this post (which hasn't been up that long) before you DD and started going off on your little tangent. Give people some time to wake up before you start crying no one is responding. Maybe people have a life outside of TB and need to work and can't see the post right away or respond. Stop being a a whiney little b*tch.
Hmmmm.... apparently Negative energy can be good for fertility because if I do recall there are many ladies that have been on this board for a while who are now pg. SOOOOO again FAIL on your part!
Negativity breeds negativity so I'd say that you are the one bringing it and cultivating it.
BU-BYE!
Pot meet Kettle.
This post is overflowing with P&R you should be KU anyday now. Because your not bitter. Noooooo.
I admit I clicked on your I'm sorry post, but felt it was only made because someone called you out and you did the " tail between my legs jont" and posted an I'm sorry.
As for this post, we don't all live on the boards 24/7. I do not sit here and wait for people to post so I can answer, life does not work that way. I have a husband, cats and a social life.
So I'd advise you leave before you show how much more patietic you are as your not hurting us, your hurting yourself. " And knowing is half the battle"
You know Gracie, I feel sorry for you. I really do. These women have been my rock for over a year now. It took a while to really "fit in" but I found the more I gave, the more I got. Just like real life. People on these boards disagree, people say stupid things, sometimes people post and no one knows what to say or are busy. It's a message board not a dedicated meeting time. Even after the first round of bitter name calling, you could have come back. Are people going to jump back in and embrace you? No. You did make an ass out of yourself and it takes a while to forget that. Instead you came back and acted like a spoiled two year old who didn't get her way. You should be ashamed. Sadly, I don't think you are a good enough person to realize that.
In all of this Gracie, you lose. No one here does. You aren't the first to name call, you won't be the last. But you lost out on being a part of the greatest and strongest group of women I have ever known. That makes me feel more pity for you than you could ever have for me.
Is it wrong that I find the misuse of the word "bitters" really funny? I'm sort of stuck on it.
Because, as far as I know, that word is only applicable in cocktail situations. Ah well.
Gracie, you've been reported for name calling. Cheers!
This song says it all:
And you're such a ray of sunshine...just spewing positivity, huh?
Btw, the only negative energy I have seen on this board in a long time is in your posts. I have seen and received nothing but love and support on this board.
Your mom!