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UPDATE (quite long and a small vent...)

hellonwheelshellonwheels
in TTC After a Loss

WOW..i havent been on in forever..with the wedding and stuff...i just havent had time...so now that I have time to sit down and accomplish something..here i am :) I missed you ladies!

#1-Marriage- Me and dh are extremely happy..we are just hoping to start our family now...he caught me the other day looking at a friends belly pics...her due date is a few days off of what mine was...and he said the SWEETEST thing, "That's going to be you soon enough...but your belly is going to look 110 times better" (ok..so he may not be a very sensitive person...but for him to say something like that..thats him trying to be sweet..)

#2 I have not had AF since july 24th...

i have poas atleast twice a week since my missed AF and still --- NEGATIVE! Im very frustrated with this all right now..and DH is certain that i must be if i havent gotten a period since the day before his birthday...he knows prior to mc my body was like clockwork..after much thinking...i think Maybe my cycle is just off...or more rather..different now that i have my mc..

OH AF AND NEG. PG TESTS..I HATE THEE!!!

 

on the bright side...dh is seeming more and more excited about us getting pg again...he was so concerned before that we would have a repeat of last time..and in his words, "I dont want to put you through that or see you in pain like that again"...he almost didnt want to ttc again...but now he is almost as obsessed as i am with it all...and thats how i know i married the right man..lol


 

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  • hellonwheelshellonwheels

    imagelrachelle80:
    Aww, how sweet.  If you don't get your period in September and are still getting negative on tests, I'd call the doctor at that point. Good luck!!

    my plan is to call doc if i dont get af this month...but i may drive myself insane before then...lol

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  • jlpowers82jlpowers82 member
    I am with you about AF not being around. I haven't gotten it since our m/c which was July19th. If I don't get it this month, not sure what to do...wait it out I guess... 
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  • stillbakingstillbaking member

    Congratulations on your wedding! And I hope that your cycle gets itself sorted soon. I know how frustrating a long cycle with multiple negative tests can be - I had a 92 day cycle just before our wedding. My naturopath thought it might have had to do with the stress of the planning, dealing with everyone's expectations, etc.

    Hopefully now that you're enjoying wedded bliss, AF will show and things will get back to normal. Good luck with TTC. I'm glad your DH is sweet and supportive :)

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    Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

    Femera started November 2014. 3 rounds, no luck. Moving to IUI.
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  • hellonwheelshellonwheels
    BTW..dh forgot to tell a family friend we lost the baby..so the guy comes up to me at dh's little brothers bday party and touches my belly and asks why my tummy is so tiny (honestly..I was wearing 00 jeans and an xs abercrombie shirt..how could i look like im pg?)..and i was like..there is nothing there...and he looked at me strangely (all with his hand still on my stomach..i have never seen someone pull there hand away so fast..it was like i had the plague or something..lol)....so i had to explain..I was on the verge of tears and running to my car to leave..but he apologized profusely before yelling at DH that he didnt tell him...but i mustered up the strength to stay anyway (mostly because i got to play with this guys adorable 1 1/2 year old son in the sandbox) and had a fairly good evening...even if there was one very awkward moment...lol
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  • hellonwheelshellonwheels
    imagestillbaking:

    Congratulations on your wedding! And I hope that your cycle gets itself sorted soon. I know how frustrating a long cycle with multiple negative tests can be - I had a 92 day cycle just before our wedding. My naturopath thought it might have had to do with the stress of the planning, dealing with everyone's expectations, etc.

    Hopefully now that you're enjoying wedded bliss, AF will show and things will get back to normal. Good luck with TTC. I'm glad your DH is sweet and supportive :)

    thank you

    I never thought of the stress and stuff causing my cycle to be off..hmm...

    that could be it..but considering the amount of..sexy time..us newlyweds have had...if my cycle is off..maybe we randomly landed on O day..that'd be fantastic...*sigh* i can hope cant i?!?

     

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  • jerriesgirljerriesgirl
    Congratulations on yourw wedding!  I hope that AF visits soon.
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    We love and miss you Jillian (18w) and Peanut (6w). Welcome to our TAC miracle Jacob!
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