Super Shitty Day (T&P needed)

Sarahp63 · September 2010

I am so sick of crying and I need a vent. I knew you girls would be here to listen to why my dad has been so awful.

1.) Today is my edd for the baby we lost in January. It is also my sister's due date. Although I am so completely blessed to have this baby now, the wounds are always there and it hurts. A lot.

2.) My 21 year old cousin has been given DAYS to live. She battled cancer as a teenager, but bounced back and was finishing college on a full scholarship when they found her in her dorm room this weekend. She has a 4inch tumor pressing against her heart and little ones throughout her body. She had a second stroke today and is paralyzed on half of her body. Not even the toughest chemo/radiation/medicine/transplant will save her, They have given her a few days at the most to live. She has had no symptoms. Our family is seriously in heartache.

3.) We found out today, after being homeless since June that the housing place we were suppose to be moving into this month is not happening. They had pretty much promised us a unit this month, and since its a great place and very affordable rent, we have been staying with friends and family. Its not happening. Apparently we were misinformed and it could be another 3-6 months. We have to leave my parents house by October 1st and are back at finding a new place all over again. This is not easy and rent is very expensive here. I am freaking 6 months pregnant and dont even have a home. I feel like such a failure.

4.) We also found out today dh will be layed off from his job in 6 weeks. We knew this was a possibility but it came on the worst of days.

Any t&p would be greatly appreciated. I am all cried about and really need strength. I am about to lose a family member forever and gain a nephew in the same week. Thanks for reading if you got this far.

nikinikinine · September 2010

oh Sarah I'm so sorry. I hope that your DH can find work in the next 6 weeks so the transition will be easier. Are you guys eligible for housing assistance through the state? Maybe it's worth looking into. I'm not sure where you live or what your H does, but we live near VT and DH works out of VT a few times a week, he may have some leads. If you want to PM me we can chat and I can offer (hopefully) some suggestions! GL hon

mbjmaybebaby · September 2010

Oh honey I am so sorry. You truly have had a sh!tty day. Thoughts and prayers for you and your entire family as you deal with all this.

((HUGS))

aj5oh00 · September 2010

I'm so sorry hon...super shitty day does not do today justice for you!! Lots of T&P for you and your family as well as big (((HUGS)))!!

newsbaby · September 2010

Oh my gosh I don't even know what to say. My heart is breaking for you and your family. I wish I could help out somehow. I will keep you in my prayers. Huge hugs.

ohiostategal · September 2010

wow that is so much to deal with sweetie. I am so sorry to hear about your cousin. I can't imagine the heartache your family is going through. To add all the housing and financial stresses on top of that and your pregnancy is just so much. I don't think it matters whether you are pregnant or have 5 children, EDDs are really really hard. I wish there was something I could do or say to make you feel better. Giving you big hugs and I hope that the housing and job situation get better for you really soon.

mrslovebug · September 2010

I am so sorry. Sending lots of T & P that you get some good news this week. I will pray for your cousin and family.

iluvadam · September 2010

I am so sorry for all that you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Huge (((hugs)))

schoolsoutbride · September 2010

I'm so sorry! I hope things start looking up.

ALY1981 · September 2010

oh Sarah, i'm so sorry for all that you are going through. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

ashonkwiler09 · September 2010

Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. I am so sorry you are going through all of this.

EMTTessie · September 2010

Oh Sarah I'm so sorry, I don't know whatelse to say. **BIG HUGS** Sending T&Ps to you and all of your family.

momto3cats · September 2010

I'm so sorry. That is too much to deal with for one day.

cara-n-steve · September 2010

Oh Sarah...I"m SO sorry your day was so terrible. I wish I could say something to make it all better! My heart goes out to you and your family. You're in my T&P.....HUGS....

j11skate · September 2010

Sweetie, that is all a lot to have to deal with especially while pregnant. You need to try to stay as calm as possible (I know, I know) for the health of your baby. That kind of stress is not good for you while pregnant. I truly cannot imagine!

I will be thinking and praying for you in this very difficult time!

Family hopes · September 2010

Oh my! I know it feels like everything is caving in right now. You are certainly in my thoughts and prayers. Sending HUGE ((((hugs))))

vawad82 · September 2010

((HUGE HUGE HUGS))

I'm so sorry to hear that all of this seemed to have happened today!! It's not easy but I'm sure things will work out!! Sending you tons and tons of T&P!!

TryingforBaby1 · September 2010

I am so sorry you are going through all of this. Lots of T&Ps are being sent your way!

Deanne Shehane · September 2010

So sorry Sarah. T and P to you and your family in this very sad time. We're here for you.

wiscgirl95 · September 2010

Oh wow. That is a lot to deal with, and I'm so sorry. I hope things turn around soon for you and your family. T&P's with your family during this difficult time.

miesl · September 2010

*huge hugs* That's a ton to deal with - and I think you're doing a pretty good job dealing with it all - not a failure.

dianne2007 · September 2010

Sarah honey- I am so very sorry to hear about all the crap that is happening. You certainly have had such difficulties to deal with. I wish there is something that I can say that would make a difference. But just know that you are in my T&Ps and you have the strength to make it through this.