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Brownie points for DH

lindsay.loulindsay.lou member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I informed him that if this Clomid cycle doesn't work, he has to have a SA.

He just said, "sure." Didn't make a fuss at all. 

I was very surprised and pleased. 

(I even messed with him and said he'd have to do it in the tiny bathroom right in the ob's tiny waiting room.  He was fine with this. haha. I had to tell him I was kidding).

 

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  • jen629jen629 member
    Awww Great DH...We had to do all of this before we started any treatment and I think I approached it wrong and we had a huge fight about it last week because I more or less "told" him what needed to be done instead of asking him and he was right but once we talked it all out it was very healing.....but I hope this cycle works and you won't have to go that routeBig Smile
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    What a great dh. My RE's office lets dh do the sample at home since we live close enough.

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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member
    Yea...Good DH.  My Dh has his tomorrow.
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  • jen629jen629 member
    imagebutterfly843:
    What a great dh. My RE's office lets dh do the sample at home since we live close enough.
    We did our's at home too
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  • lindsay.loulindsay.lou member

    imagejen629:
    imagebutterfly843:
    What a great dh. My RE's office lets dh do the sample at home since we live close enough.
    We did our's at home too

    Honestly, I don't even have any idea where he'd be giving his sample. 

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  • jen629jen629 member
    imagelindsay.lou:

    imagejen629:
    imagebutterfly843:
    What a great dh. My RE's office lets dh do the sample at home since we live close enough.
    We did our's at home too

    Honestly, I don't even have any idea where he'd be giving his sample. 

    On our sheet it said if you lived within 60 minutes of the office they would give you a cup to bring home and do it if he really didnt want to come to the office
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    Way to go to your DH!
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  • maceymay1816maceymay1816 member
    That's a good man!
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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member
    that's awesome. It's always nice when they don't protest Big Smile
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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona

    Mega points for the DH!  

     Same here, we lived close enough that DH could take his sample in.  I hope you don't have to go this far and that the clomid does work.  Fingers crossed! 

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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    Yes, that definitely earns him some points. Good DH.

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  • Court1Court1
    Good for him!  We had a couple little fights about the SA.....see if they'll let him do it at home & bring the sample in.
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