I did something kind of "big" today.

lindsay.lou · September 2010

Told MIL we might never have kids.

Granted, I didn't open up about our loss or our issues ttc (she knows nothing about either).

She got on our case tonight (AGAIN!) about having kids, so I said, "well, we're not sure we're ever going to have kids." and left it at that.

So (obviously) she probably has the impression that we're not sure we WANT kids.....but still, I think it's good that she at least has the idea in her head that we might never have kids. Because, well.....at this rate we might never have kids. Sad

jen629 · September 2010

Well not for nothing but that's what she gets for hounding you I am sorry Lindsay:( {{{HUGS}}}

frogyie · September 2010

Oh Hugs! I am glad you were able to put her in her place. The worst is when people keep buging us about having kids or worse telling us not to "rush" into having kids.

Scout05 · September 2010

:::HUGS:::

BeachCole · September 2010

Big hugs, Lindsay. And good for you for saying something that will hopefully stop her getting in your business about it.

bbhalphen · September 2010

((hugs)) I hate that she is on your case about it. I would have snapped at her already and told her about the loss, you're a much better person than me for pretty much keeping your cool! I hope she leaves you alone about it now!

3ltlones · September 2010

I'm sorry you had to even answer the question and I hate that people ask the question so often. Huge hugs.

Sunflower730 · September 2010

((HUGS))

I have faith it will happen for you.

HugginAngel · September 2010

Lindsay I'm glad you gave her a verbal slap to shut up. I have faith it will happen for you and it's always easier when you don't have people on your case bugging you about it!

rjl07 · September 2010

I'm sorry you had to deal with that, but I'm glad you said something to her. I hope she realizes that she better just mind her own business on this topic. ((hugs))

surfergirlkona · September 2010

::hugs:: I am sorry you have to endure the constant pestering, people need to mind their own business. Good for you for saying what you did, hopefully it will get the message across looped and clear. I am always hopeful for you.

mdm2137 · September 2010

((hugs)) I'm sorry. I wish people could just mind their own business. I've been tempted to tell people no, we're not having kids, we plan to just get a few more chihuahuas. People are so annoying. I hope she leaves you alone.

Olive44 · September 2010

(((hugs))) Good for you for standing up to her. I hope she leaves you alone about it now.

butterfly843 · September 2010

((hugs)) hope she stops bugging you now. I hate when people ask about kids, lately I have been telling more people about our losses because I'm tired of being asked. I really believe it will happen for you and you will have kids.

maceymay1816 · September 2010

Sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully she will back off and give you the space and privacy you deserve. It's hard enough going through this process, but to have someone hounding you about it makes it that more unbearable.