TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Rainbows! Rainbows! Rainbows!

maybe some puppies mixed in for good luck :P

Everything has been worked out and IVF is a go again!  We fought Anthem for three days and finally last night my husband got through to a very kind supervisor and he over rode the denial.  I am going to order a gallon of Gonal-F before they change their minds.

We also did alot of research on financing and learned that most medical financing companies are contracted with specific doctors, none of which were with ours.  We do not qualify for financial hardship.  I was talking to my MIL and before I could finish telling her what happened she stopped me dead in my babbles.  She said that she and FIL already said that they would do anything to see us have a baby.  They are going to be our bank!  

It has been one hell of an emotional ride these past few days and we have jumped all the hurdles.  With all of these issues that keep trying to knock us down, I just feel as if something positive will come from all of this.  And that is going to be a baby Kona.

You all have been so amazing and supportive through all of this.  I tend to freak out and just lose all hope when shvt hits the fan.  I am cannot thank you enough for all the research you have done in trying to help me find ways to make this happen.  It is such a blessing to have you all. 

So happy to have this ticker back up! 


Re: Rainbows! Rainbows! Rainbows!

  • Wow that is so amazing I am glad you have such wonderful in-laws I am so excited for you hon!
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  • I'm in tears now, lady.

    I am so happy this is working out, YAY for that ticker. Baby Kona, you are worth all of this. But maybe go easy on your mommy in the teen years, okay?

  • That is beyond fantastic news!  I am so happy for you.  And what great ILs!

    I sincerely hope this brings the dreams of baby Kona to reality. Big Smile

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  • Ohhhhhhhh I am SO happy for you! This is the best news ever today :D:D:D
    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • YAY YAY YAY! What amazing in-laws and to insurance company supervisor with a heart YesYes!
  • I'm crying now Kona, I can't imagine when you get your BFP......bless your MIL and FIL and that super nice supervisor.
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  • Thats so wonderful hun.
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  • Wow, that is all amazing.  I think these are all wonderful signs of things to come.
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  • That's amazing news!!  Double rainbows all around!

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  • Glad everything worked out.  GL with the IVF!
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  • That ticker being back is a beautiful sight! And what amazing inlaws! I'm so glad things are back on track :)
  • Yay!  I'm so excited for you!
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  • I like these kinds of puppies and rainbows!  This is such exciting news!  It must be wonderful to have such supportive in-laws! 

    Congrats, Kona!  And GOOD LUCK!

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  • Yayayayaya!  I'm so happy that everything is coming together for you!  Yay for summer 2011 babies!
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  • Oh Kona...This brought tears to my eyes! I am so so so happy for you...I am glad it has worked out and your inlaws are going to help you out...I hope Baby Kona makes his/her arrival in the next 40 or so weeks!!!
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  • So I just cried my way through your post.  I have been praying for this post.  I'm so happy that you fought so hard for what you wanted...and won!  Your inlaws are quite amazing and I am so happy that you have them on your side to see their grandchild, very soon.  I'm so happy to see that ticker again!  Congratulations on fighting and showing them who's boss!
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
  • That is so fantastic!!! I am so happy you have such a supportive family.
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  • Sorry, I was busy all day but I am so beyond happy for you two!!! Yayayay!!
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  • I am so glad you got this all worked out. That's wonderful!!

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    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
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  • Wow Kona.  That is great news.  I'm so glad you got Anthem to cooperate...and great news about the in-laws too! 

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  • Oh Kona!!!

    Yay! Yay!  Yay!

     

    I'll take puppies and rainbows for you any day.

     

    Lots of thoughts coming your way right now! 

  • So happy to hear this and love the ticker!! I'm so glad they changed their mind about the meds.

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    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • What awesome news!  Fingers crossed for you.
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  • This is amazing!!!!
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  • I am so happy for you!!
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  • Oh sweetie, I have tears of joy for you! This is all going to work out and you will take home a baby :)
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • This is WONDERFUL news! So happy!
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • I am so excited for you! That is wonderful news.
  • Yay!!!!  That is such great news!  I'm praying sooooo hard for you!
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  • that is such great news. Congrats!!!

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  • This is excellent news!!!  The fight will all be worth it and someday soon you will be able to tell you LO how hard you fought to have them.  Good luck and keep us posted.
    Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
  • Kona that is awesome news! I'm so happy for you!! Fingers crossed!!
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