I hope you are making some progress with your insurance company. On IF there are a couple posts from Yellow Daisy about the Gonal-F Compassionate Care program. Here's the link: https://www.gonal-fcares.com/financialAssistance/compassionateCare.jsp
I don't what the income limits are, but it's worth a look. Her posts also mentioned writing a heartfelt letter about what she has been through to go with the application.
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