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Where is the romance???

maceymay1816maceymay1816 member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

So apparently DH wanted to get a little frisky tonight and I shot him down.  We don't seem to have any problems in that department, and always have a great time.  But lately I've been wanting a little romance.  I want to be kissed like it's our first date.  I want to feel like our bodies our melting together like a cheesy harlequin romance novel.

DH wants to do a grab and go with my boobies and expects that will make me turn on the Welcome To My Vagina sign.  While I love him dearly and love makin love, damn it tonight I just want a little more romance. 

Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
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Re: Where is the romance???

  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    It sounds like you just need to talk with your DH. I have said that trying to have a baby has ruined my sex life.
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    We've been married almost 7 years.  There are certainly times I feel this way.  I just tell Dh that if he's interested he's going to have to put in more effort than that.  I think it's difficult for them, some days we want one thing, then next day we want another.  When we were first married I didn't do a very good job of telling him what I need, now I do.
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