TTC After a Loss

feeling discouraged

not sure why- i just am- i know it takes a few cycles to get back on track after a m/c but my body was wonky before hand too- ive just been reading TCOYF and it just seems so overwhelming- why oh why cant i just be a FH?
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Re: feeling discouraged

  • I feel the same way ((HUGS))
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  • ((hugs))  I'm right there with you, sista.
  • (dd's ment'd) 

    I used to be a FH.  I miss those days.  Pre-mc I got ku 1st try, 2nd try and 1st try.  Fortunately, 2 of 3 resulted in our LO's.  Then there was the third one and we don't really need to relive how that one turned out..unfortunately we all know that far to well.

    Post mc, we are now on attempt #4 and I have NO idea what is happening with my body.  Last cycle I turned to OPK's in hopes of getting some kind of answers.  Got nothing.  No ewcm. No +OPK.  This cycle I've turned to charting along with OPK's.  Still nothing. No +OPK. No temp increase. (but a lil EWCM).  

    My body used to run like clock work.  26 day cycle. O on day nine.  No questions.  No reasons to look for answers.  Now, I have no idea what to expect or when to expect it.  It is SOOOO discouraging.

    I'll hang in there if you hang in there... 

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  • wouldn't that be nice if we could be one of the smug pg women?!
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  • I'm sorry. I feel the same way.
  • I am right there with you all too. Part of me knows it is normal to be messed up after a loss and part of me want to hit things.
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  • I'm sorry.

    ((Hugs))

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