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lauralizabee
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Irrational Anger...
lauralizabee
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I'm sorry...I'm not going to say much about all of this, but I'm really (irrationally) angry and want to vent right now. I might DD later, but I just have to scream a bit. It doesn't make any sense, but maybe that's just the hormones.
You know how everyone always says "There's never the perfect time to have a baby"? Unfortunately, it WAS the perfect time. Everything fell into place and it was exactly the right time and the right financial situation and perfect with space and jobs and we'd planned to move when the babe was a couple months. And now that's all shot to hell, and I have to wait a couple months to try again, but then if it doesn't happen right away, it would be TERRIBLE timing and we have to wait MUCH longer. ARG!!! I don't know why I'm so pissed about it right now, but DH and I are just sulking about how well it would have worked out 
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Thanks for letting me vent. I'm glad my mom is driving 6 hours to give me a hug tomorrow. I need a mom hug.
married 7.3.08 - mc 8.10 - dd 6.4.11
cp 10.13 - bfp 11.13 edd 7.22.13
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Re: Irrational Anger...
You're not being irrational at ALL Laura. This is an unfair happening and you have every right to feel angry, sad, inconvenienced....anything you want to feel.
I wish there was more we could do than just offer virtual hugs.
No one in the world deserves to deal with what you're going through and I wish you didn't have to experience loss like this. It's simply not fair.
I'm so sorry.
Katy and Brett ~ Runaway Bay, Jamaica ~ October 4, 2008
I'm glad your mom is coming to give you a mom hug. Mom hugs help. You have every right to be sad and angry. I don't know what else to say, but I hope that your Nestie/Bumpie hugs help too. I'm thinking of you.
As everyone has said, it's not irrational at all: you have every right to be upset and angry. Even though your baby won't show up at the perfect time, you will have your perfect baby soon enough. Again, we are all here for you. I'm so glad that your mom is able to come to be with you at this time.
Again....((( hugs )))
Doc hasn't, but the nurse said it on the phone this afternoon. She said the doc will talk to me more about it on Wednesday morning when I see him again.
you dont need to appologize to us or anyone. Let it out, we are here for you.
I'd have to do some googling to find it, but I recall hearing recent research study concluding that having a baby right after a miscarriage might actually be a very good time for the body. I don't know the science behind it or anything, just heard the conclusions.
and not that that takes away any of the pain.
I'm sorry that you're going through this. I think it's completely normal to feel the way you do.
This! & ::Hugs::
I'm glad your mom is on her way.
Oh Laura, You have every right to vent your feelings. They are in no way irrational. In fact, they make perfect sense. I'm so so sorry for your loss.
(((((GIANT HUGS))))
I don't think I could send enough ::HUGS:: your way now. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. NO ONE should EVER have to go through what you are going through right now. I don' tthink you are being irrational at all, you have EVERY right to feel the way you are feeling.
TONS of VIBES your way. I will keep you in my T&P