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1st tri post - "why am I so scared"

Mcarrieb85Mcarrieb85 member
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Did anyone see the response to that post that said she wished people wouldnt post their "horror stories" bc "it scares the nieve and vulnerable" 1st time Moms? Im not usually one to flame, but Im so sick of people saying sh!t like that!
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Re: 1st tri post - "why am I so scared"

  • Scout05Scout05 member
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  • jeannaqueenajeannaqueena member
    I wish I had known that m/c were more common and that i wasn't alone, yes it is scary, but so is motherhood.......we should all be able to talk about ALL of it more openly.  Even in my immediate family I didn't even know about half of them.
    TTC#1: 14 months on our own (did HSG, b/w, SA);
    BFP on Cycle 14--TWINS! Identical twin boys stillborn at 19wks(1/9/10)
    3 break cycles; took clomid 50mg, BFP #2 Beta #1 35, Beta #2 338!!! Owen was born 2/11/11! 
    TTC#2: 4 cycles on clomid: BFNs
    BFP #3: Cycle #5 100mg clomid; beta #1 21; beta #2 6=CP 
    Cycle #6 break cycle TTC no meds=BFN
    Cycle #7: 150 clomid+ovidril+IUI=BFN (switched to RE)
    Cycle #8: follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #9 Forced break due to cyst
    Cycle #10 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #11 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle#12 Forced break due to cyst, went on BCP; did repeat HSG, Saline U/S
    Cycle #13 IVF: Follistim/Menapur ER 11-30 11 eggs, 5 mature, 4 fertilized and 3dt on 12-3; BFN
    Cycle #14: IVF#2 lupron/follistim/menopur ER 1-22, 19 eggs, 14 fertilized, 5dt on 1-27, BFP!! beta 1: 63, beta 2: 119; EDD 10-15-13; 1 frozen embie
    Miracle Surprise BFP, EDD 10-1-15; saw HB great Betas, 11weeks lost baby MC at home
    Moved forward with FET transfered solo frostie on 6-4-15, beta 1: 315, beta 2: 738, u/s showed one baby on track EDD 2-21-16
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  • JenL12345JenL12345 member
    Women need a place to discuss their fears because IRL I think we are afraid to talk to people about it....I think the boards are perfect. And I do wish all the best for the people who never have had to experience what we have and can have that naive joy I had one day a long time ago but for the people who need support, they deserve it.  
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  • BabyMarekBabyMarek
    I have no one to talk to about my son, and what happened. (except my husband) If I couldn't talk, vent and just let it out I would go nuts! People have got to realize things happen and some of us dont want to keep it bottled up. ARGH some people.I think I understood this post right?! If I didnt sorry.
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