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I almost smacked a b**ch!!

I was out shopping at the outlet mall, and their was this mom and a little boy at the store. The little boy had to be about 4. Well needless to say he was bored and was running around the clothes stands. Nothing crazy, not annoying at all. His mother kept yelling at him to stop and when he didn't she turned around and smacked him on the face hard. His nose started bleeding and so did his lip. I turned around and went off, MS tried pulling me back but I was no match! I even pushed her. I was furious, the child was bored and all he wanted to was play. After I snapped I realized I had tears down my face. I warned her that one day DCFS will come and take her child away! I left without my purchase. Mind you I am very strict and I discipline my child, I always have but never for that and never like that!! Fertiles piss me the fvck off!!! I hate how fvcked up life can be!!! 

Re: I almost smacked a b**ch!!

  • I can't believe the "lady" actually did that. What a b****. Poor kid. It just make me wonder, if she hits him like that in public, how does she treat him @ home? Disturbing.
  • Oh wow!!  I don't blame you for getting so upset.  I can't believe she bloodied his face!!  I am all for discipline and strictness too, but that is not the same thing at all!!  Poor little guy. 
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  • Remind me never to F with Mari!!  :)

    But WTF is wrong with that woman??

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    Remind me never to F with Mari!!  :)

    But WTF is wrong with that woman??

    Gymn you don't want to piss me off. Someone has to stand up for the little guy!LOL

    You know I was wondering how she treats him at home!! 

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    Remind me never to F with Mari!!  :)

    But WTF is wrong with that woman??

    Yes For real.  But no seriously I can't believe people. The sad thing is if she can do that in public, I can't imagin what she does at home. I pray for those kids.

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    I can't believe the "lady" actually did that. What a b****. Poor kid. It just make me wonder, if she hits him like that in public, how does she treat him @ home? Disturbing.

    This.  You had every right to be upset.  That is not the way to treat a child.  

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  • Ok so if I end up on the news that I was arrested for assault all you biatches better pool in money and bail me out!! 
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    Ok so if I end up on the news that I was arrested for assault all you biatches better pool in money and bail me out!! 

     You got it!

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  • Oh I would have been beyond piissed to and totally said something.  That kind of  discipline is not ok in my book.  Not at all.

    I hate shiity parents.

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  • way to stand up for that poor boy. I absolutely would have done the same thing. I hate when parents treat poor innocent children that way. I would have been in jail cuz I would have made that biitch bleed. Pay back!!!!

     

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    way to stand up for that poor boy. I absolutely would have done the same thing. I hate when parents treat poor innocent children that way. I would have been in jail cuz I would have made that biitch bleed. Pay back!!!!

     

    Well I would've too, but my 10 year old was with me and he looked scared... I tend to scare him at times.  

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  • Mari, I would fear nothing with you by my side:)

    Seriously, I am so happy you stood up to that b!tch. Maybe now she'll think twice about doing it again.

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  • Way to stick up for that kid Mari! I also recommend following (discreetly) into the parking lot and getting the license plate number. You can call CFS and give them the LP number --they can find out who it belongs to and pay them a visit :)
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    I was out shopping at the outlet mall, and their was this mom and a little boy at the store. The little boy had to be about 4. Well needless to say he was bored and was running around the clothes stands. Nothing crazy, not annoying at all. His mother kept yelling at him to stop and when he didn't she turned around and smacked him on the face hard. His nose started bleeding and so did his lip. I turned around and went off, MS tried pulling me back but I was no match! I even pushed her. I was furious, the child was bored and all he wanted to was play. After I snapped I realized I had tears down my face. I warned her that one day DCFS will come and take her child away! I left without my purchase. Mind you I am very strict and I discipline my child, I always have but never for that and never like that!! Fertiles piss me the fvck off!!! I hate how fvcked up life can be!!! 

    almost sounds like my night last night. except it involved a baby in a car! see my post above.

    Guess I was channeling you Mari!

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  • OMG!  I would have went off too!  What a b^itch!  I thought about the poor child and got teary eyed.  I had a similar incident.  I was in Walmart and a lady had a 1 yr old in the front of the cart.  The little girl kept trying to get up and the "mom" kept throwing the F bomb and the child and screaming!  Finally the "mom" hit the child and the little girl busted her mouth on the front of the cart.  2 other women started yelling at this selfless bi%tch although the workers just stood around.  The "mom" ran out really quick but I cannot get that little girl out of my head.  I REALLY REALLY wish I would have went after her.  I feel so much guilt! 

    Good for you for standing up for this little kid!!   

     

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  • OMG, that's awful. That poor child, so sad.

    I'm so glad you said something to her. Maybe, just maybe, she went home and thought about her behaviour. People like that really make me sick.

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  • You showed restraint, I would have smacked her and then called the cops!
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  • That's really scary.  I don't blame you in the least for reacting that way.  How awful!
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  • WTH?  Good for you for standing up to her.  I hope she learned something from this situation.
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