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TBPS - This one gets me really choked up

LadyHollywoodLadyHollywood member
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I found myself going back and reading it several times today, along with the email response...  I don't know, but it just really got to me. Sad 

I broke down right before DD turned 6 months over this same thing.  I couldn't get thoughts like this out of my head.  My mom's mom passed away when I was 6 months old, which set me off when my DD turned 6 months.  I was scared of my mom dying, me dying, DH, everyone...  It was really really hard.

Whoever wrote this, you certainly aren't alone...  PM me if you need someone to talk to.  Secretly, obviously. 

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Re: TBPS - This one gets me really choked up

  • myonetruelovemyonetruelove member
    It doesn't haunt me as much, but it's a thought when I'm somewhere alone. I always wonder if DH will be able to support him and DS. If he will be able to move on and be the best father/mother for DS despite what happened. I hate thinking about it.
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  • LSzwayaLSzwaya member
    I also think about this. It doesn't consume me or anything but sometimes it enters my mind and I get upset. I never really thought about dying until DS came.
    MC 4/09 at 6w2d 
    Rainbow Jude 
    born: 12/31/09
    Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
    11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection

    TTC#2 10/2010
    M/C: 4/09/11 5w
    CP: 12/26/2011 
    CP: 1/28/2012 
    MMC: 4/16/2012 at 11w2d 
    Ectopic: 6/25/2012 MTX 07/03/12
    CP 11/24/2012 
    Rainbow Violet 
    born: 9/11/13

    All ALers welcome! 
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  • Mrs_SpringbrideMrs_Springbride
    Someone i graduated HS with just recently died, tragically.  He had a 1 year old.  It freaked me out for weeks. i still think about it and how i coulnt imaging dying, or DH dying either. This event  made me have my DH get life insurance, and i got a policy as well. 
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  • madeleines_mommymadeleines_mommy member
    This happened to me a few years ago when my mom died.  I couldn't help but be bothered over the "what If's" happening to me... and DD would be left with no mother.  It doesn't really bother me much anymore, I had to realize that this is just beyond my control and there is no use upseting myself over it.
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  • LadyHollywoodLadyHollywood member

    imagemadeleines_mommy:
    ....I had to realize that this is just beyond my control and there is no use upseting myself over it.

    This was eventually what I had to pound into my own head, over and over again, to get it to stop consuming me.  Every now and then, it still pops into my head though.

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  • PB&J1216PB&J1216
    I didn't post this secret, but I could have. Some days I spend my whole day locked in the house for fear of a freak accident. I worry excessivly about Jeff dying. I check in with him 5-10 times a day while he is out or at work. He think I'm controlling, he doesn't know how afraid I am.
    Parker 12:09:09 Alyssa 5:31:12
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    Parker 12:09:09 Alyssa 5:31:12
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