Babies: 3 - 6 Months

Moms of bad nappers -- commiserate with me

Do you ever feel like you spend all your time trying to get LO to sleep?  We do have occasional good naps and do spend time playing and doing other things, of course, but my LO is such a sleep fighter 90% of the day.  So today, for example, she napped for 20 minutes.  Since then I've tried rocking her, nursing her, going for a walk in the stroller, going for a walk in the Moby, and now she is in her swing while I push it (the highest swing setting won't put her to sleep).  It would be one thing if she didn't need the sleep, but she's fussy and constantly yawing, so we really can't do any activities except try to get her back to sleep.  Anyways, I guess it's just one of those days...  How do you spend "those" days with LO?
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Re: Moms of bad nappers -- commiserate with me

  • My LO's never really been a napper. The past 2 days she's actually taken naps(!!!!!!!!!!!!!) and it's been amazing. She fought it this morning, but I fed her, rocked her, put her down in the PNP and I could hear her coo-ing and making noises at her mobile, than nothing. It's been a peaceful hour-plus
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  • My LO is such an inconsistent napper, some days he takes a couple nice long naps and other days he cat naps all day. It's so hard to keep him entertained when he doesn't nap. I usually lay him on the floor for a while, then we try the bumbo, then the bouncy chair, then we go on a walk. I'm so exhausted by the time he finally goes to sleep! The days he naps are so much easier!
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  • This is day 2 of one of those days.  I don't know what his deal is.  He is very tired and ready to sleep.  But he fights falling asleep initially and when he does finally surrender he keeps crying...still half asleep but crying.  It is so frustrating.  Fortuntately even over tired LO is pretty good natured and he sleeps great at night. 

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  • DS has fought sleep since about 3wks old, UGH!  On the rare occasion, he'll just go to sleep, no problem.  But 90% of the time he gets fussy & gets to a point where he's crying so bad that he's sweating (doesn't matter if we leave him in his PnP or hold him).  Once he falls asleep, we're lucky to get 30-60mins out of him.

    Sometimes, he'll fall asleep while we're holding him & as soon as we put him down, he pops awake & wants to talk & play again.

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  • I was about to post something like this! My LO was such a GOOD sleeper up until about 2-3 weeks ago. I know it is because he is more socially aware now, but still.....miserable. I went throug Hell with sleep with my first and vowed to do anything to keep that from happening this time. I've been consistent and have read many sleep books. I'm kind of going with what works for me. I will leave him to fuss for a little, but I don't have it in me to let him CIO at this young age!

    He used to be up in the morning just like 30 minutes before needing a 30 minute nap. Today, I kept him up 1.5 hours in hopes that would produce a longer nap. Nope. Still 30 minutes. Then he was more tired than normal. Kept him up an hour and got him back down. Took forever, but he's alseep. We'll see how long this lasts.

    It is hard with my older son. I spend so much time getting LO to sleep. It is hard on my older child. He's good most times with staying downstairs if I put on a show or something, but sometimes he forgets where I am and comes screaming up the stairs....therefore, waking up LO!

    We're also having night waking issues when he used to sleep 6-7 hours. Ugh. we'll get there eventually!

  • YES! And, by the time he finally goes to sleep I"m too exhausted to be productive around the house :( I just have to hope that it will eventually get better. I just read that their daytime sleep is still just maturing around 4-5 months.
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  • Add me to Team No-Nap! My four-month-old takes 35-minutes naps, and has since about, oh, 3 weeks of age.  I can get her to take an hour-long nap about once every 2 weeks or so.  I've tried the wake-to-sleep method but no dice - she still just wakes up after 35 minutes.  So I have learned to do everything really fast or in 35-minute "chunks."  It'll be better by high school, right?
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    This is day 2 of one of those days.  I don't know what his deal is.  He is very tired and ready to sleep. 

    This exactly. DD was inconsolable yesterday she got herself so overtired. We're trying more of a nap schedule today (Usually i put her down when i sense she's tired) and she still fights fights fights. She won't put herself to sleep, and needs to be bounced--which is tiring for me. We're going to try to get her used to napping on a schedule first, then tackle the falling asleep on her own. Even with the more structured naps both her naps today have only been a half an hour long...shorter than it took trying to get her to sleep both times!Confused

  • DD never naps! It's driving me and our nanny crazy! I spend forever and a day trying to get her to sleep..she fights falling asleep and wakes herself up shortly into the nap..so then we try again...her best naps are only 1 hr, and usually I'm lucky to get 2 30 min ones. I am so relieved I'm not the only one. I feel like I do absolutely everything imaginable to get her to sleep and still nothing seems to work. She is just so active. The kicking, flailing, talking, rolling over just never stops.

     

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    DD never naps! It's driving me and our nanny crazy! I spend forever and a day trying to get her to sleep..she fights falling asleep and wakes herself up shortly into the nap..so then we try again...her best naps are only 1 hr, and usually I'm lucky to get 2 30 min ones. I am so relieved I'm not the only one. I feel like I do absolutely everything imaginable to get her to sleep and still nothing seems to work. She is just so active. The kicking, flailing, talking, rolling over just never stops.

     

    This sounds exactly like us  -- from the lucky to get two 30 minute naps to the kicking, flailing, and rolling over waking her up.  Glad to know I'm not alone!  Thanks to all you ladies for posting.  While I don't wish this no napping on anyone, it does feel better to know that my LO isn't the only one!

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