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Sexy Time Related ?

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Does your FI/BF/H try to have sex with you in his sleep?

This happens to us about twice a month.  It wakes me up, but he sleeps through (start to finish) it and sometimes remembers it. 

How common/uncommon are MH and me? 

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  • Birdies08Birdies08 member
    Ha ha, MH tries sometimes, but I am grumpy when woken up, so I tend to shove him away and go back to sleep.
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  • sweet*pocketssweet*pockets
    wait, for real? like he initiates sex, then y'all do the deed and he doesn't remember? 
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  • HappyAardvarkHappyAardvark member

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    wait, for real? like he initiates sex, then y'all do the deed and he doesn't remember? 

    Right?!?! 

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  • luckygal3luckygal3 member

    imagesweet*pockets:
    wait, for real? like he initiates sex, then y'all do the deed and he doesn't remember? 

    My thoughts exactly. This has never happened to me. 

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  • msmarshmsmarsh member
    imageHappyAardvark:

    imagesweet*pockets:
    wait, for real? like he initiates sex, then y'all do the deed and he doesn't remember? 

    Right?!?! 

    Does he *** and everything without memory of the incident? Holy hell!

    Sometimes H humps me in his sleep, but I just push him back to his side of the bed if I'm in no mood.


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  • iluvmylabiluvmylab member
    Yes, he has tried before.  Before we started TTC, I'd just get pissed that he was waking me up, but now I'm game!
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  • natgerbernatgerber member

    I thought I had read something about this before:

    https://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/news/20100607/initiating-sex-while-asleep-not-so-unusual

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  • HappyAardvarkHappyAardvark member

    well, I'll be damned. Sleep sex.

    You learn something new every day.

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  • gorby007gorby007
    imagemsmarsh:
    imageHappyAardvark:

    imagesweet*pockets:
    wait, for real? like he initiates sex, then y'all do the deed and he doesn't remember? 

    Right?!?! 

    Does he *** and everything without memory of the incident? Holy hell!

    Sometimes H humps me in his sleep, but I just push him back to his side of the bed if I'm in no mood.

    90% of the time it hasn't gone that far. In the beginning I used to think he was awake. Now I just know that he's sleeping and I enjoy it until he just stops lol. 

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  • msmarshmsmarsh member
    imagegorby007:
    imagemsmarsh:
    imageHappyAardvark:

    imagesweet*pockets:
    wait, for real? like he initiates sex, then y'all do the deed and he doesn't remember? 

    Right?!?! 

    Does he *** and everything without memory of the incident? Holy hell!

    Sometimes H humps me in his sleep, but I just push him back to his side of the bed if I'm in no mood.

    90% of the time it hasn't gone that far. In the beginning I used to think he was awake. Now I just know that he's sleeping and I enjoy it until he just stops lol. 

    Well as long as you are enjoying it then I guess it's all good Yes


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  • MrsLee22MrsLee22

    MH has put his hands down my pants in his sleep before, but I've never been full-on humped.

    That actually sounds kinda freaky to me.

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  • katiesue55419katiesue55419
    imagegorby007:
    imagemsmarsh:
    imageHappyAardvark:

    imagesweet*pockets:
    wait, for real? like he initiates sex, then y'all do the deed and he doesn't remember? 

    Right?!?! 

    Does he *** and everything without memory of the incident? Holy hell!

    Sometimes H humps me in his sleep, but I just push him back to his side of the bed if I'm in no mood.

    90% of the time it hasn't gone that far. In the beginning I used to think he was awake. Now I just know that he's sleeping and I enjoy it until he just stops lol. 

    Hahaha! I'm not laughing at the question but because if MH did this I'd enjoy it but also be trying to ask him questions like I do when he talks in his sleep!

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  • rianalsrianals member
    DH has done this.  It worried him a LOT because...what if he wasn't in a committed, consentual relationship and he tried it with someone he was (platonically) sleeping next to or...who knows what else.  Anyway, it concerned me the first couple times, but doesn't phase me now.
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  • mrsofficerjohndavismrsofficerjohndavis
    My FI has accidently "felt me up" during sleep. I had no recollection of the event, but FI was horrified and kept apologizing the day after...apparently he woke up with his hands in my pants. way to go hubby, way to go.
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  • stepheverhartstepheverhart member

    My hubby does, but he remembers it. But he always says that I initiated it, but I always remember very clearly that he is the one who initiates it lol...funny DH

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  • HallilHallil member

    I have never had this happen with my dh, however a cousin of mine does this to his wife (and they both find it quite funny.) She told the story at the last family function (to a small group of us) about the one time that he decided to start slapping her ass during it. Lol, it would be a bit...alarming at first I suppose but to each their own...Stick out tongue

     

     

     

     

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  • NeonEyeliner77NeonEyeliner77 member
    I've heard quite a few stories about sleep sex. It would be hard to not laugh if my husband actually did this. Usually it's just rubbing against me in the middle of the night and he wakes up when I try to push him away then we do it anyway since we're both awake lol.
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