TTC After a Loss

~*~*~Ladies in waiting*~*~*~

This is group designed for all the ladies in the various stages of waiting after a loss: waiting to miscarry, waiting for AF to arrive, waiting to TTC again, and waiting for BFP.   I post every Tuesday and Thursday afternoon.

 

*Since this process is such a true test in patience, it is nice to have the support and friendship of other women going through similar experiences and emotions.  I have found my belief in God and Heaven above to be a huge comfort in dealing with my loss and waiting and I would love to support you through your journey if you would like.  PM me anytime.

 

*If you would like to be added to the list please post current TTC status. There will be a daily question, a place for prayer requests and a daily inspirational verse.  I purge this list every now and again, so if I?ve added you before but you don?t see your name now, just let me know!

 

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Good afternoon ladies! 

 

Congrats to maymaymia and mlmgg who both got their BFPs recently!  I?m so happy for both of you?and we?ll keep you in our T&P here!  Hope you have a H&H 9 months!  ETA: mlmgg's first beta was very low....so hope she gets better news tomorrow!

 

DoingItRight ? how was your OB appointment?  Hbises ? any word on your test results?  WI-mommy-hopeful ? I agree, good to see you on the waiting to O list finally! 

 

Welcome to Kristin&Adam who is new to the group.  I?m sorry for your loss.  I know you?ll find great support here and I hope to find you on the graduates list very soon!

 

God Bless!!!

 

Upcoming events:

8/26 ? Hbises follow-up on testing from D&E

8/27 ? DoingItRight?s OB appointment

8/31 ? ade2be?s first RE appointment

9/2 ? babes12 f/u on cyst with OB

9/8 ? ade2be?s second RE appointment

9/10 ? tigers413 progesterone level check

 

Inspirational Verse: James 1:5-6: If any of you is lacking in wisdom, ask God, who gives to all generously and ungrudgingly, and it will be given you. But ask in faith, never doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind.

 

Prayer Request/s: (new requests in red)

- The girls that are currently going through a loss.  Including the ones that are coming back from PgAL L

- The girls on PL board that sadly join us daily.

- All the new BFP ladies ? that they have sticky babies and a H&H 9 months!

- Some of our graduates are getting very close to their EDDs.  Lets pray for their deliveries to go smoothly

- Maymaymia?s MIL who was diagnosed with cancer.

- Two of our recent grads?.str8ota who is on hospital bedrest with high blood pressure and may be delivering soon (at 28 weeks).  And Clayliover who had her twin girls 8/17 at 25 weeks.

 

Question of the day: If you could live anywhere, where would you choose?

 

Ladies in waiting to Try again.. bananarama91 waiting 2 cycles to ttc BeachCole (Kelly) waiting to do IUI bsgirl143 TTC after returning to England catngar77 waiting till Oct to ttc ChadnKim42009 waiting for AF cherylanddoug waiting for AF Dondraandluis (Dondra) waiting for testing to be complete Gilgenbach2007 waiting for 1 more cycle Hbikes (Heidi) Waiting for AF and f/u on Aug 26th hopefulelise Waiting till July to ttc ikissedthecook waiting for AF Irachelle80 ttc this cycle if DH is ok itsmegin waiting for 2 cycles JayandTay09 waiting for AF and f/u on Aug 5th jerriegirl waiting till Nov to ttc jms2005 (Marylynn) waiting on tests KLMP waiting to ttc in Aug kndeckar waiting to ttc in Sept Kristin&Adam waiting for AF lorlei13 waiting to ttc in Dec mary548 waiting to ttc in Aug Michrocc waiting to ttc in Nov millejj1 waiting to ttc missy618 waiting till fall to ttc Mocha girl waiting on test results Mrs JillB waiting for AF Mrs.Leah.Maria waiting to ttc? noahbear On break till Oct 2011 Nemattox waiting to ttc Pachita waiting to mc PrincessDi80 waiting on one more cycle raeg13 waiting for AF Roxyttandme waiting to ttc symphony4586 waiting to ttc in Sept tctibbe waiting on AF and f/u on 8/13&20 TeacherVicky waiting to ttc thecatsfancy waiting to TTC in Sept tomsgirl23 waiting for AF tonilee80 waiting for AF Travers081906 (Tracy) waiting to ttc around Aug zanymermaid Deciding on next step     Ladies waiting to O Ade2be (April) waiting for appt with RE.  PCOS, Endo, Male fertility AmyRN   Aubs13   awesome-sauce   Babes12 (Melissa) OB appointment 9/2 circe811   clondo   cutebride73   daisy142   DoingItRight   dorothy&gail   elsielucas   eminbmore Clomid + Ovidrel ErininNYC   HubbyLuv Endometerosis jamilynn9   jdmiller38 (Jenn)   jen629 Clomid jetskreemr   jld1687  (Jessica)   JordonB23   js297206   kellbelle618   KristysRedBarn 1st Clomid cycle Liz415   mandy6418   mdm2137   nosylla14 Tests came back normal pumkiepoo   shelshel79   Thamesie   tigers413 Clomid + Metformin Triple_sevens   verona_1999   WI-mommy-hopeful   willamina28       Ladies waiting for BFP?s (2ww) AGFaso   BabyTrippin   bbhalphen PCOS and hetra MTHFR - ?? cycle BeachGrill   carrielb12   Chicwed   Fififa21 testing this weekend Firefightersgal 100mg Clomid IAM4UK   jdeats71 IUI in Aug jgoetz:)   jolieandscott   kbel424 (Katie)   kers0068   <FONT size=3 face=Calibri

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  • Well, with +opks the last two days, I should be starting my 2ww soon! So excited to have a shorter cycle than the last one!!! Also, excited for my dear friend, Lkat who got her BFP last week! Much love to her!!!

    QOTD:Honestly, I LOVE WI!! I have lived here all my life and wouldn't want to be anywhere else :-)

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  • I ended up testing on Friday after being harassed by my husband and got a bfp. I had a little spotting over the weekend which had me really frightened, but it stopped and I'm hoping for the best. EDD is May 10, 2011.

    Thanks so keeping this list, ade2be. I hope that you and the other ladies will be moving on to Pgal soon.

    qotd: Hawaii. We went there on our honeymoon and actually stopped into an open house just for kicks. If it wasn't so far away from our families, I could definitely see living there. 

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  • I finally caught this posting!  I've missed it the past couple of weeks b/c of work.

    Both of my f/u's went well.  I'm on BCP's until November when I will switch back to Clomid.  I was thankful the RE went this route, if I didn't go on BC who knows how long my cycles would have taken.  Next month marks one year that we will have been TTC or I guess I should now say we have been trying to bring a baby home.  I'm praying that Nov/Dec - one of those - will be my month.  

    QOTD:  If you could live anywhere, where would you choose? Someone actually asked me this the other day.  If I could live anywhere and just be wealthy and not work, I would pick Italy.  In the countryside somewhere.  Just maintaining my villa and vineyard.  If I had to actually have a job, I think I would like to try living in Chicago.  I really want a taste of the big city!

  • My first RE appointment actually went really well.  I just posted a summary (albeit a long one) on TTCAL6+  It looks like today is CD1 for me and I'm tta this cycle while I get a bunch of tests run.

    QOTD: Hawaii without a doubt.  if I didn't have to worry about jobs or family or any of that, I would totall go live there.

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  • imageLkat17:

    I ended up testing on Friday after being harassed by my husband and got a bfp. I had a little spotting over the weekend which had me really frightened, but it stopped and I'm hoping for the best. EDD is May 10, 2011.

    Congrats! Sorry I missed your post, but I'm so happy for you!

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  • QOTD: I think I'd go with Arizona. It's got very few natural disasters to worry about (I think). It's always hot. It seldom rains. It doesn't have many allergy triggers. It sounds like my dream place!
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  • Hi Ladies, 

    Can I join in? I see my RE this afternoon to get the official "all-clear" to TTC again (I got the unofficial ok from my regular doc last week). I'm also 5DPO so I'm waiting on AF to get here so we can officially TTC again next cycle (which should start soon, apparently...) 

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    Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

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  • EDD is going as well as expected today. We went to the cemetery earlierand have not done much of anything else. QoTD: as of right now I'm content with ATL.
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  • I am so happy that your RE apt went well. 

    My OB apt went ok.  The doctor that I made the apt with was not the doctor that I had the appointment with so I was kinda disappointed about that.  I think that I am going to stick with my current OB because this OB did not have an inhouse ultrasound.  Also, my OB called me last week and seemed like she wanted to be more proactive.  I will give them until October and then ask for a referral to an RE.

    QOTD: In the area where I live.  I love being close to family.  I would love to live somewhere tropic but would have to be able to take my family with me.

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  • If I could live anywhere, I'd live in Athens, Georgia. I LOVE that town.
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  • This is an awesome thing!  I know I found it late, but if you could add me to the 2ww list that would be great!  I just O'd either 1 or 2 days ago..so will be testing at 12dpo...I LOVE that verse..thank you for that!

    I'm not sure where I would live..I will have to think about that one:)

    Oh and CONGRATS to the two new BFP ladies:)

    So excited for our little blessing:)
  • Still waiting to O. It should be sometime next week. Fingers crossed!

     I would love to move back to Tempe, AZ

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  • CD 11 for me and waiting to O.  my abdomen is already getting tender, sign that O is coming. 

    very anxious for my ob appt. on thurs.  now i just have the courage to say what i want to say.  i always feel like i'm hounding them or think my concerns aren't valid enough.  Confused 

    as for the question i have no idea where i'd want to live.  i actually like it here in PA except that the winters are alittle too long. 

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  • AF arrived yesterday and my doctor gave me the green light to start ttc this cycle.  So, at this point we are waiting to O!  I am very excited to get this going again!

     QOTD: If I could live anywhere, it would probably be Australia.  Although I have never even visited there, it has always been my dream!  I would also love to live closer to my family... I am currently a 10 hour drive from my parents.



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  • I am on 2ww.I am testing on Sept 5th...fingers crossed

    Congrats to all the BFP's!

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  • imageLkat17:

    I ended up testing on Friday after being harassed by my husband and got a bfp. I had a little spotting over the weekend which had me really frightened, but it stopped and I'm hoping for the best. EDD is May 10, 2011.

    Thanks so keeping this list, ade2be. I hope that you and the other ladies will be moving on to Pgal soon.

    qotd: Hawaii. We went there on our honeymoon and actually stopped into an open house just for kicks. If it wasn't so far away from our families, I could definitely see living there. 

    So glad to hear things are still on track! Keep us posted!!

    QOTD: For the way my life is right now, married to DH, raising a family (someday), I would stay right where I am, maybe move 10 minutes away to a nicer neighborhood near a country club and lake, but I absolutely adore this area. DH and I both grew up here and we love it, it's nice, quiet, but not too small town-ish, and most of our friends and families live here. 

    Now, that said, if something happened to DH (God forbid) I would take the life insurance and move my single, mourning self to either the Italian or French countryside, buy a cottage and just focus on painting and writing. I think DH and I might do that when we are old and/or rich, whichever comes first.

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  • AF showed up a few days ago after I got a BFN, so I am now waiting to O again. Here?s to a June baby!

    QOTD: I would want to live somewhere warm and tropical, anywhere in the Caribbean would be fine, maybe Costa Rica, Venezuela, a different part of Mexico that actually has rain, like the Yucatan Peninsula...

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    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

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  • Still waiting to find out my stupid blood test results, my appt is a week from today (9/7).

    QOTD: I would want to live somewhere tropical with a beach.

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  • Thanks for the updates. I'm waiting to get AF tomorrow. I O'ed a day late, probably with the back to school stress, so I'm expecting AF a day late, too! BFNs all the way.

    If I could live anywhere, it would be near a beach. Probably Cape Cod/Martha's Vineyard. I love it there, and love how it dies in the non-touristy times. And there's none of this TX heat! 

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  • Update: I O'd last week on CD 14, which was the earliest I have ever O'd - so I was very excited. 

    QOTD:  Well, I love living in Pittsburgh - I guess there's no place like home, but I think it would be really amazing to have a second home in Italy.   

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  • I'm currently on CD 25.  I had some spotting just a little while ago, so I'm guessing AF is on her way.

    QOTD: Honestly, I wouldn't live anywhere else.  I love Kansas and our little town.  There are some things I'd change, but I'd never leave.
  • I'm still waiting 2 cycles to try...and for this long one to end.

    QOTD: Somewhere near water. I love the ocean/lake and how calming it is, but my favorite trip was Niagara Falls so possibly there. There were rainbows constantly, and I got choked up on Maid of the Mist from the pure beauty of everything around me.

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