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:waving: Hi girls! (re-intro?)

shouldbworkinshouldbworkin
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Hi again!  I'm back, maybe.  Hopefully some of you remember me (I don't think I was "gone" that long, and I never left this board ... still responded to posts).  

Got confirmation this week that I have another blighted ovum.  Trying to maybe schedule a d&c for next week, but hoping to m/c before then.  Sad that you  have to wish for that!  My OB will not Rx misoprostol for a missed m/c.  If I had a healthy PG that I wanted to abort or was bleeding he could help me, but since my body is effing me over, no luck.  Just love not having a choice in this matter. Angry

No idea what I want to do about TTC (but at least now I know that's normal).  Right now, it's a big fat no!  Obviously, I need time to heal.  I see lots of benefits with stopping where we are, but a big part of me would still love to experience it all one more time.  It's the chance of experiencing *this* again that gives me pause.

 I miss you girls and hope you'll welcome me back.  =)

DS1 age 7, DD age 5 and DS2 born 4/3/12
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  • BlakeGBlakeG member
    Of course I remember you.  I am so sorry that you are back here.  It is so heartbreaking to see people come back and it is just not fair.  Lots of T&Ps for you and big hugs. 
    Natural BFP - 2/13/10, Natural M/C - 3/9/10 (Missed m/c found at 8wks 4days) Prenatal B/W shows I'm a Beta Thal carrier & so is DH. Onto IVF w/PGD... Jan 2011 - IVF #1 - C/P Mar 2011 - IVF #2 - Day 5 PGD, no ET, 5 snow babies May 2011 - FET #1 - BFP!! Twins!!! 2/9/12 - Our precious miracles arrived! Baby A 7lbs 13oz & Baby B 5lbs 13oz
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  • RunSchwartzRunRunSchwartzRun

    I'm so sorry you have to come back.  I dont' want to say welcome back, because you shouldn't be here, but well, welcome back.

    I hope you can find some peace about what to do next.  ((hugs))

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  • AmyRMAmyRM
    I remember you. I'm so sorry you're going through another loss. (((BIG HUGS)))
    BFP #1 Valentine's Day BFP! February 14th 2010 Missed M/C 11w5d ~ forever in our hearts.
    BFP #2 EDD September 30, 2012 ~ natural m/c 5w4d
    broken hearted, changed forever
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  • liveforhimliveforhim member
    I'm so sorry you have to be "back" again:(  BIG HUGS
    So excited for our little blessing:)
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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member
    I'm sorry you have to join us again.  {{BIG HUGS}}
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  • Court1Court1

    I'm so sorry you're coming back.  I wonder why your dr won't prescribe drugs first....maybe it's standard practice with a missed m/c.  I never asked, we just scheduled the d&c for the same day.

    ::::Big hugs:::

    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • ravenorchidravenorchid
    I'm sorry you're going through this and  have to be back here. Hugs!
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  • pandapepperonipandapepperoni
    Of course we remember you. Big hugs, I'm so sorry you are here again.
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  • leneae10leneae10 member
    I'm so sorry, hun.   (((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
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  • damabo80damabo80 member
    Hugs. I'm so sorry you have cause to join us again in a TTC capacity Sad


    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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  • shouldbworkinshouldbworkin
    imageCourt1:

    I'm so sorry you're coming back.  I wonder why your dr won't prescribe drugs first....maybe it's standard practice with a missed m/c.  I never asked, we just scheduled the d&c for the same day.

    ::::Big hugs:::

    He said it's not appd by the FDA for a missed m/c.  DH called one of the other OBGYNs there and she may Rx it for me tomorrow after she reviews my chart.  I guess not a lot of women ask for it at that practice. 

    DS1 age 7, DD age 5 and DS2 born 4/3/12
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  • harlos40harlos40
    So sorry for your loss and the fact that you have to come back.
    BFP! 10/1/2010 EDD 6/9/2011 Kaiya June Born 6/16/11 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    I'm sorry you're back ((hugs)) Crying
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    I'm sorry you're back ((hugs)) Crying
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  • stillbakingstillbaking member
    I'm so sorry you're back here. Hugs to you.
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    TTC#1 since May 2009
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    Bean - BFP May 26, 2010. EDD Feb 3, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 8w5d - June 29, 2010.
    Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

    Femera started November 2014. 3 rounds, no luck. Moving to IUI.
    March 2015: IUI#1 - nope.
    May 2015: IUI#2 - nada.
    October 2015: IUI#3 - BFP on Nov 2, 2015! *stick baby stick!*

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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    I?m so sorry you are back. Sending you a big hug and wishing you lots of luck as you figure out what to do next.

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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  • Kristin&AdamKristin&Adam
    I'm so sorry that you're back here - lots of hugs to you!
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  • owenstowenst
    Hi hon - of course I remember you!  I'm so sorry that you have to be  back here again.  I hope for your sake that you do start to m/c naturally, sad though it is to have to say that.  {{hugs}}
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  • TeacherVickyTeacherVicky member

    So fvcking unfair! I'm so sorry you have to officially come back. Sad

    ((big hugs))

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