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"friend" vent. ugh.

branlynnbranlynn
in January 2011 Moms

this summer I kind of fell off the map, I got depressed after all the drama with "baby daddy", not to mention most of my "friends" just flat out started acting like I no longer exist. I took 9 hours and worked all summer too, so I didn't talk to many people. My pregnancy news was told to EVERYONE by an acquaintance, so I was already bummed about that anyway.

today, I was sitting at school eating lunch with one of my closest friends, and she showed me a text message from a so-called "friend" of ours. They were texting last monday, and she mentioned that I look really good for how far along I am and that it's a boy, and he said, "so she's really pregnant? I thought that was just a cry for attention. I can see a miscarriage coming soon" she replied "no, she's really pregnant, why would she joke about something like that?"

She told me what he said so that I knew, not to upset me, but I was almost in tears. This guy is supposedly one of my close friends, and not only does he not believe that I'm pregnant, he also has totally ignored the past few years of our friendship where he KNOWS I have NEVER joked about things like pregnancy. I don't even like being the center of attention, and a good amount of the attention I've been getting since BFP is negative... and the worst part is that he decided to talk crap about me to one of my closest friends like she wouldn't give me a heads up. I'm just hurt that he couldn't flat out ask me about it. I know he's not a real friend, and my sister keeps telling me that he'll just look stupid when I give birth to the cutest baby boy, but I'm emotional and that's just messed up.

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  • wmramselwmramsel
    That stinks, and what a dumb@ss...a m/c isn't something to mention in passing like that, and what a douche for saying you would lie about such a thing!  Just know that you are better than that- and your sister is right!
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  • swrlygrlswrlygrl
    what a ***...obviously not a friend but I am so sorry you had to come to that conclusion is such a jacked up way
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  • elizjane26elizjane26
    Wow that is awful. I am sorry.What a douche.
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  • stbmittlemanstbmittleman member
    Wow, I'm so sorry you are having to deal with that, but at least you are finding out what he is really like so you can cut him out of your life. What a douchebag. He doesn't deserve to have your friendship.
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  • atownpreggoatownpreggo
    omg what a jacka$$!!   I'm sorry you were hurt by a "friend"...  that's an awful feeling.
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  • KeriMacKeriMac

    imagestbmittleman:
    Wow, I'm so sorry you are having to deal with that, but at least you are finding out what he is really like so you can cut him out of your life. What a douchebag. He doesn't deserve to have your friendship.

    This was well said.... I am so sorry - it hurts when you find out someone who thought you could trust is really immature and selfish.  You are better off without this "friend."

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  • mzclairemzclaire

    that is so disgusting. I'm really sorry you have to deal with this jack@ss. 

    He definitely does not deserve your friendship.

    hugs 

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