My sister is pregnant with #2. My nephew will be 5 months old next week. While I love being an aunt and I'm happy for her- this alone stings just a wee bit.
But the worst part is that my whole family has known and has been keeping it a secret from me so I wouldn't be upset. I hate it that they don't want to share things with me because of this. It makes me even more upset about what DH and I are going through then if they would just tell me.
I know people all around me are going to get KU. I just wish they wouldn't walk on eggshells like I'm a freak or something.
Please tell me it gets easier to deal with?!?!
edited: spelling
Re: My first crappy IF day
My SIL is having fertility problems with #2. She is now onto IUI and I often wonder if she gets pregnant before me how they will handle telling me. I rather just know, let me have a small pity party if needed, and move on.
There are some cases where I would wish MORE people would walk on eggshells.. ex the pregnant after "2 abortions" people at the office
Yep- I know they were trying really hard to be sensitive and really didn't mean for it to upset me at all. I am really happy for them- I love, love, love being an aunt and having another little nephew/niece will be great. I guess it's all just hard to deal with at first so I would have been upset either way. It's all just a bit overwhelming at first! Thanks, though!
IVF #1: 4-11-11= Transferred 1 beautiful blastocyst I named "Nugget"
5 Snowbabies! Beta#1 4/21= BFP! 226; Beta#2 4/25= 944
DS born 12/14/11
Baby #2 FET Nov/Dec 2013
12/13 Beta#1=BFP 349; 12/16 Beta#2=1,089. First ultrasound 12/26. DS#2 born 8/8/14
~~PAIF/SAIF Always Welcome~~
Kathy- I covered all this in PM to ya so I don't want t repeat myself.
I needed to chime in though when I saw this- because that is my situation exactly (only just with a SIL that I am really close to). I had a hard time at first when she announced her BFP but I am right there with Papps now- just in love with the new baby.