ugh - husband vent.

brekaye · August 2010

I'm PMSing AGAIN and my husband makes it worse! I was the big green hulk, or swamp thing or whatever other nasty character you can think of when I rolled out of bed this morning. It started with his stupid alarm going off at 4 this morning, and then he snoozes it 5 times (at least) THEN he decides he's going to just sleep in until 5:30 and go in at his normal time. Thanks, I'm wide the hell awake at 4:30. Then he gets up at 5:30, I'm still awake, turns all the lights on (which wasn't a big deal if I was out of bed but I was still trying to sleep) and putters around. Then comes in and kisses me goodbye (which was very sweet, not complaning about that) and says, I can tell your cranky...ya think? So he calls me a few minutes ago and gets this attitude like he's scared to talk to me because "i can tell you are still in a bad mood" which really does put me back in a bad mood, I was fine until I spoke to him. I think I'm just an ass. I love him so much but he knows exactly how to push my buttons. Then he gets all submissive and starts apologizing (in a sarcastic way which ticks me off even more) Don't do that! Stand up and tell me I'm being an ass and you won't stand for it!! something! ugh. I need to go back to the swamp. Sorry for venting, thanks for listening and I really do love and appreciate my husband but I'm being selfish right now.

CashewsMommy · August 2010

I do the same thing!! I hold the grudge as long as possible, when who is it hurting? ME! Is he going to learn from it, NOPE!

Why do we do this when we know it's only going to hurt us?

brekaye · August 2010

Exactly. I tried to lighten the conversation earlier but he was still all mopey and trying to get off the phone real fast. I was even poking fun at my being jerky. Then I thought, what the heck, he's not the one who's going to have to deal with the cramps, bleeding and all the bloating and extra crap that comes along with it, he needs to step off!!!