TTC After a Loss

Intro...and need patience please!!

Hi Ladies,

So this is now the 3rd board I have been lurking and decided to introduce myself...

My story:  DS is 15 months; BFP 6/24/10 EDD was 2/28/11- 1st ultrasound 7/19 revealed "spontaneous identical triplets" - went into crazy freakout mode as handing 4 kids under the age of 2 yrs would be insane; 12 wk NT scan on 8/23/10 revealed missed m/c @ 11 wk 4d on all 3 babies; D&C/E on 8/27/10.

Recovering from D&C/E fine but can't help wanting to get back on TTC bandwagon ASAP (doesn't help that BFF is preggo w/ EDD that was just 3 days before mine), don't want to jeopardize any future pregnancy and have f/u appt w/ OB on 10/5/10 where hopefully we get the green light for TTC again assuming AF has made her appearance. 

Just wondering any helpful insight/info you received to help make the time go by faster or put your mind at ease???

TIA!!!

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Re: Intro...and need patience please!!

  • I am sorry for your losses I hope you find some comfort posting here Welcome
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    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
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  • Hi and welcome, I am so sorry for your loss!

    **side note, on TTCAL preggo is a sauce, not a status of pregnancy.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss!! I hope you can find the patience you need to get through this next month.


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    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • Wow, what a roller coaster.  I'm so sorry for your losses.  Welcome to the board and good luck with your TTCAL journey.  I hope your stay is short! 
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  • I'm very sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board! I hope the time goes very quickly for you. To get me through the weeks waiting to try again, I dove into exercising and home improvements. DH would come home from work to find my new project like once a week!
  • I'm sorry for your losses.
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope this month goes quickly for you and that you won't have to be here too long.
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  • I am so sorry for your losses. I hope being on this board helps you find some peace.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.  This place is pretty much my main time killer/mind easer.  It is great for those things though.
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  • I am so sorry for your losses.

    I have thrown myself into volunteer work and am picking up a certificate in Project management starting in October to help pass the time.

    The ladies here also help with that as well :)

    I hope you can find some comfort in this board.

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    BFP# 2 Delivered 6wks early due to preeclampsia
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  • Welcome to the board.  I am so sorry for your losses.  Hang in there.  When I get impatient I always remind myself that I would rather be safe than sorry!
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses.  Welcome to the board and hopefully we can help you pass the time quickly.
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. I have no advice on the obsessing, as it's been 3 months since my early loss and I still do it. (((hugs)))

    Welcome to the board!

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  • {{{Hugs}}} I'm so sorry for your loss and welcome to the board. Unfortunately I am still trying to have more patience also, so I don't have any helpful tips there, but I hope you get the advice and support on these boards when it is hard to find elsewhere.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss - hugs!

    I've started working out more, it helps get me excited and keep my mind off of the crazy things going on in my body.

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  • So sorry for your losses.  Welcome!
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    BFP #2 11/6/10 - EDD 7/19/11 - Beta #1 @ 13dpo, 104 - Beta #2 @ 20dpo, 3400s
    BFP #3 4/24/13 - EDD 1/8/14 - Beta #1 @ ?, 33 - Beta #2 @ 4 days later, 260
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort from this board. I sure have. This is our first month ttc since the miscarriage and I have recently took up painting and sketching. It takes my mind off of everything else and can be very time consuming. I find different step by step drawing tutorials and learn to draw different things. I have very little patience but this seems to help. Hope you can find something to pass the time!

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    I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.  This place is pretty much my main time killer/mind easer.  It is great for those things though.

    Yep this.

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your triplets. I hope your enjoy your stay on this board.


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    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. I hope the time passes quickly for you! Like someone said, my time killers are this board and home improvement projects.
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  • I?m so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board, I hope AF comes soon for you and time flies by to October so you can get back to TTC again!

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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  • Sorry for your loss hun.  Read the newbie link in my siggy for info.  HOpe time flies for you!
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  • so sorry for your losses.. ((HUGS)))..
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