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this is stupid, but

3ltlones3ltlones member
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I'm panicked about it anyways.  I'm coming up on when I lost Zoe, 16 weeks 4 days.  Right before I lost Zoe(one week and 4 days) I was at a baptism for my nephews, I'm their Godmother.  This Saturday, exactly 1 week and 4 days before I am 16w4d, I'm going to a baptism because I am Godmother to DH's cousins little boy.  I am completely scared.to.death. of the similarities.  I know it's crazy but I'm so scared that things are lining up the wrong way.  If you could think of me and send me some make it through the next two weeks without losing your mind vibes, I would appreciate it.
DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member
    Sending you MiTtNTWWLYM vibes as we speak.  Everything will be just fine.
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  • shaysmom05shaysmom05 member
    I'm sorry hon. I know it's hard not to connect things. I do it all the time. I will be keeping you in my thoughts to get you through all of this. ((HUGS))
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  • mkoelkermkoelker member
    I know its scary, but its not going to turn out the same way.  I'll be thinking of you.  Big hugs
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  • Brady1*Brady1*
    I'm sending you tons of good vibes!!! 
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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    Sending you tons of good vibes for the next two weeks (and then some)!
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  • SonadoraSonadora member
    ::hugs::
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  • maritzburggirlmaritzburggirl
    Thinking of you! Coincidences are always scary, we're here whenever you need us!
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  • applebride40applebride40
    Sending you lots of positive vibes for the new few weeks.  I hope the time passes quickly for you!
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    You're talking to the woman who had a panic attack because I have jury duty around our NT - just like DH had jury duty the day of our NT w/ our first baby.

    It's so hard to not see the coincidences and see "signs," I know. But we have to remember - it doesn't work like that. It just doesn't.

    :::Hugs:::

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  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member
    {hugs}  You will be fine.  I'll be thinking of you.
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  • EmKo0210EmKo0210 member
    ((HUGS))  It's completely understandable to feel panicked.  I'll be thinking of you and sending a ton of positive vibes!
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  • gwennythepoohgwennythepooh member
    I will absolutely send you vibes. I flipped out last week when I realized that my u/s was on the 25th and the last time I had an u/s on the 25th was when we found out we lost the baby:( I think it's hard not to compare the timelines to the last time. ((hugs))
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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member
    Big hugs!!
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  • jesmckennajesmckenna member
    This is why I am sometimes happy that I have the worst memory in the world- everything was such a blur with my first two pregnancies that I barely remember any of the details.  However, I know if I did I'd be panicking about the "coincidences" as well!  I'm sending lots of hugs and good vibes your way.  Everything will be fine!
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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    (((hugs))) I think this will be the beginning of new positive associations with baptisms for you.  Sending good vibes your way for the next few weeks!
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  • celestej619celestej619
    (((hugs))) I don't think it's stupid at all to be nervous or freaked out by that. I agree with pp, this will be something wonderful to associate with from now on. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers that everything will be just fine.
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  • Aubs0009Aubs0009 member
    ((Big Hugs)) sweetie, everything will be just fine.

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  • vkbaby09vkbaby09
    Why the world has to play with our minds like that just boggles me!  But, this is the way to make it right.  My thoughts are with you and good vibes are being sent and will continue to be sent daily...
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending hugs, will keep you in my thoughts.

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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member

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    Sending you MiTtNTWWLYM vibes as we speak.  Everything will be just fine.

    This.

    We all spend so much time asking "Why" and trying to find answers, it's no surprise when the strangest things stick out.  I spent my entire first trimester avoiding the radioactive waves from my laptop, for example, because the common thread between my 4 failed pregnancies was. . . that I spent a lot of time online. 

    We can't expect ourselves to be rational.

    So in the meantime, I'm sending you please please please please don't lose your mind vibes. 

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