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Final update to the situation

MayDayGirlMayDayGirl member
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The parents couldn't agree together on adoption in the end, so the mom had no choice but to parent the baby.  It doesn't sound like a great situation on their marriage, and we are praying they can stay together through such a tough road.

 

Thanks for your well wishes and prayers everyone.  But he wasn't meant to be our baby.

Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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Re: Final update to the situation

  • julandjojulandjo member
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  • Honeydew1894Honeydew1894
    hugs
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  • tunanunatunanuna
    Sorry.  I hope that they are able to provide a happy stable home for this child.
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  • Alicia_22Alicia_22
    I'm so sorry!!!! :( I was really hoping for good news from you this time! :(
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  • CaptainSeriousCaptainSerious member
    I wish them, and your family, the best.  Warm thoughts to you as you regroup, refresh, and look forward.
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  • amberfernandezamberfernandez member
    I'm so sorry!  I really hope this is in the best interest of the child, and if it is, I wish them luck.  If not, I hope they realize, and make the right choice for the child.
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  • silliestbunnysilliestbunny member

    So sorry....

    Your kindness and love inspire me.  

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  • Sunny1sSunny1s
    Sending additional prayers your way too for this kiddo.  Sorry this didn't work out.  Wishing you well as you regroup to move forward. :)
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  • JanieJonesJanieJones
    Sorry it didn't work out, best of luck getting the right match soon.
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  • Art TeacherArt Teacher
    I'm sorry, R.  Hope you're doing okay.
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  • so1966so1966
    so very sorry, rachel  (((HUGS))) 
    After 7 years of marriage and 5 unsuccessful IVFs, we have been granted the gift of adopting a baby boy, born 4/21/11.
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  • LadyRed7LadyRed7
    I am so sorry. You have such a wonderful attitude R. Keep your chin up and stay strong!
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  • jehnmjehnm
    I'm sorry to hear that!  I know you are so ready to have a second child.  God must have an extra special baby waiting to find it's way to you!! 
    TTC #1 since 12/07 SA 9/08=borderline normal HSG 1/09 found R tube blocked Multiple IUIs both with oral and injectible drugs from 2/09-2/11 Started domestic adoption process in 5/10, homestudy complete 9/10 Failed adoption after home with baby for 2 weeks 11/10 Blessed through the miracle of private adoption with a son, born 6/6/11 (his grandma's bday) 7lbs 9oz 20.5 inches long! So worth the wait!
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