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My sh!tty sh!tty bang bang day

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I posted earlier that I had to go to a baby shower today. Of course we stopped at a BRU to buy a gift. That wasn't too bad since I refused to look around and asked DH to please just get a gift card.

I spent most of the shower in the bathroom crying. Comments like "out of all our married group of friends, you guys are the only ones without a kid" would send me running to the bathroom.

It was heartbreaking seeing DH play with other people's kids. What's worse is that the little girl they adopted is the same age as what my little girl would have been.

I just couldn't take it anymore when they had the cake that said "welcome home".  We had to leave and as soon as I got in the car, I completely lost it. I cried off and on the hour long drive home.

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BFP 7.7.09 - CVS 9.10.09 (Girl) - 9.24.09 Severe Fatal Malformation - D&E 10.7.09 @ 17wks
BFP 6.1.10 - 6.10.10 Ectopic M/C @ 5wks
BFP 10.26.10 - 10.29.10 CP
BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
BFP 6.10.14 - CVS 7.2.14 (Girl) - EDD 1.12.15 - Born sleeping 8.6.14 @ 17w5d
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  • TheGregory's07TheGregory's07
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  • Karen1998Karen1998 member
    I'm sorry honey.  Sending you hugs and those idiots that made comments like that a kick in the you know what.
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
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  • Rawr08Rawr08
    So sorry you had such a sh!tty day!  Some people are so insensitive.  Eff em is what I say!
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    sorry hon Sad
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  • cherylanddougcherylanddoug member
    sorry you had a rough day ((hugs))
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  • sunflowr0803sunflowr0803 member
    Aww, I'm sorry you had such a crappy day! Sad *hugs*
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  • e_ueckere_uecker member
    I'm sorry for your crappy day. Those things are so hard to see and to hear. ((HUGS))
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    ((((hugs)))) I'm so sorry it was rough!! I hope that today is better.


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  • BlakeGBlakeG member
    I am so sorry.  Huge hugs.
    Natural BFP - 2/13/10, Natural M/C - 3/9/10 (Missed m/c found at 8wks 4days) Prenatal B/W shows I'm a Beta Thal carrier & so is DH. Onto IVF w/PGD... Jan 2011 - IVF #1 - C/P Mar 2011 - IVF #2 - Day 5 PGD, no ET, 5 snow babies May 2011 - FET #1 - BFP!! Twins!!! 2/9/12 - Our precious miracles arrived! Baby A 7lbs 13oz & Baby B 5lbs 13oz
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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    I'm sorry. Hugs!
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  • Kristin&AdamKristin&Adam
    I'm so sorry that you had to go through that - HUGS!
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