pondering to not find out..

JessicaG56 · August 2010

I am having such a hard time deciding whether to find out or not! i already have two boys so DH keeps telling me of course its another boy! i work in radiology so it will be hard not to look lol! i would love to prove people wrong that i can wait but i just don't know if i can! anyone else not finding out?

fluffybuns · August 2010

My goal is to prove people wrong and not find out!

Plus, this may be my last pregnancy, if DH doesn't agree to more babies! But I'll work on that later : )

So, I want at least one of my kids to be a surprise. I figure we have everything we need either way. And I want that moment in the delivery room to be even more special!!

JessicaG56 · August 2010

i know a lady at work didn't find out and she said that pink filled the house very quick. i guess i just have it in my head that i can be buying clearance clothes if it is a girl! such a hard decision!

lisajoe42404 · August 2010

I did not find out with #1. We are probably not going to find out for #2 either. It is one of the best surprises in the entire world in!!

flamingos2010 · August 2010

I'm going though the same thing - have 2 boys, the first we wanted to be a surprise, the 2nd we found out. Not sure what to do this time! I'd love to think we could make this one a surprise too (DH would choose a surprise too) but I just don't know if that's realistic for me who loves to plan everything!! ahhh! I would have to prepare for a girl - everything is boy in our house!

We want a boy and a girl equally, but I know there are a couple of negative nancy's around us that will give us a disappointed response if we find out it's another boy. (crazy, lunatic people) I'm just trying to decide if I want to deal with their responses 20 weeks in advance and get it over with, or deal with it once the baby is born. I'd like to think that these people (MIL uncluded) would keep their mouth shut of negativity, regardless, but that just won't happen!!