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mood killer, (tmi?)

sil222sil222
in December 2010 Moms
so me and DH have been hot and cold about the sexy stuff, i don't "feel" sexy anymore so i don't initiate it often but it doesn't mean i don't want it.  He acts like i'm fragile and doesn't want to initiate anything because he thinks i'm this big hormonal monster???  so we finally communicated and tried to get things going again but now every time we "cuddle" right after he kisses my belly and says "sorry baby girl" ??!!!  Am i being to emotional but geez!! that just ruins the whole mood, he makes me feel like he really is not into it and does it just because mommy's horny and feels like he has to apologize to the baby??  sorry had to vent
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Re: mood killer, (tmi?)

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    wow wow wee wow. That would bother me too. I would not even want the baby brought up after doing the dirty. I would just lightly bring it up maybe?

    We haven't had sex in a few weeks so I have no clue on how to feel sexy or in the mood.

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  • erind0213erind0213 member

    I can see that being a turnoff.

    I have just learend that I need to engage us more so then him. I know that he wants it/needs it but I think he too is afraid at times. I do have to remind him at times not to press on my stomach but otherwise its fine.

    I encourge to get it now, cause later it might be too difficult. I don't want the "dry spell" to be TOO long... I have needs too!  

     

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