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I've been MIA

ashleyrsotomayorashleyrsotomayor member
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I know, I haven't been on FOREVER. These last few weeks have been nothing short of crazy. Between all the emotional highs and lows of the chemical pregnancy, starting my practicum for grad school, and it being the first month of a new year of teaching kindergarten, I have been exhausted and super busy.

DH and I have gone back to "letting things happen". I am still charting so I can keep track of my late ovulation, but other than that I am taking a break from all the "trying". I have an appointment on Thursday with my doctor to discuss my late ovulation and see if she thinks that plays any role in my losses. Honestly it feels pretty good to not have TTC on my mind 24/7 (it helps being so busy with other things). I am at peace with letting God have the control.

On a positive note, DH did get a new job finally! It's more of a change than a move up, but the most important thing is that he will have regular M-F hours and we will be able to spend a lot more time together!!! I am so thrilled about this!

I think of you all often and miss you! I hope things will kind of calm down soon and I will be able to bump here and there to check in on everyone. I hope you are all doing fabulous, and I hope I missed some BFPs!!!! If so, congrats and H&H 9 months!!! 

Thank you for all the continued love and support on FB from my buddies. I love you guys!!!!

 

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  • elisbuelisbu member
    You sound like your head is in a good place and that makes me happy!
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  • sunflowr0803sunflowr0803 member

    Congrats to your DH on the job! That's great you will get to spend more time together.

    I agree with elisbu, sounds like your head is in a good place. I hope you get some answers from the dr. this week, and I am glad you are not stressed out! :) *hugs*

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  • mandy6418mandy6418
    So happy for your that you're feeling good about TTC! Im sure its taken some stress away from you. And congrats to your DH!!
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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    Congrats to your DH! I'm glad you are doing what's best for you!
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    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    Hey girl! Sorry things are so crazy busy for you right now, I hope they calm down soon. Yay for your DH and the new job! Sounds like you have a good plan with all of this, let us know how your follow up goes, miss you!

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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member
    We've missed you!  But, I'm glad you're feeling at peace with things.  That's so important!  I hope things calm down for you soon...
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  • goalieamy24goalieamy24 member
    Hey Ashley, it's good to hear from you! Sometimes being busy is a huge blessing, because it distracts us from all the other stuff going on in our lives.  I'm glad that you are feeling more relaxed and I pray that God has a little miracle waiting for you and DH very soon. 
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  • frogyiefrogyie
    I am glad you are in a good place.  You were missed.  and congrats on DH's new job. 
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    Congrats to your DH on the job! I'm happy for you that you have found some peace and are comfortable with your new plan.
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  • e_ueckere_uecker member
    I hope you find answers. It sounds like you're doing really good through all of this.
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  • shy287shy287 member
    Yes, we have missed you.  I am glad things are going 'well'
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member

    Hey buddy!! I've been thinking about you a lot lately. I figured things were busy at work, i know exactly how it is.

    I'm glad you guys are taking a break from "trying" so hard. I feel like the CBEFM is helping me with that too. I don't have to worry about waiting 4 hours and testing with an OPK or anything... all i have to do is in the morning.

    I hope things work out with you DH, GL to him and his new position!!!

    I hope things slow down soon. We miss you around here!


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  • mrsmorris1mrsmorris1
    Hey Ashley, I noticed you hadn't been around much.  I'm glad you're doing well and a big congrats to your DH on his job.  I'm happy for you and your decisions about TTC--I hope your doc appointment goes well!
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