TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Why do the hits keep coming?!?!??!?

We decided tonight that we need to give our pup back. Crying.  I didn't know I had allergies but I can barely breath and poor DH has been wheezing and can't take a deep  breath and earlier he sneezed for 45 minutes straight.  We love her so much but I love DH more and I don't want to kill him. He gets allergy shots and we've tried new meds, baths, etc...he can't even touch her now without breaking out into hives.  I cried about it...DH really doesn't want to either, he loves her even more than I do but he's really miserable(sorry i'm talking in circles)..the adoption company is making me feel like a horrible person...

SERIOUSLY!?!?!   Can I please catch a break?  Apparently I can't have a kid OR  a dog!!! I'd probably kill a goldfish if I got one of them... the sh!t just keeps on coming..

Re: Why do the hits keep coming?!?!??!?

  • Oh no!  I'm so sorry!

    And shame on that adoption company for making you feel horrible!  If your and your DH's health is in jeapordy, you're definitely doing the right thing!

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  • I'm so sorry.  ((hugs))
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  • Oh Heidi, I'm so sorry about the pup.  Sad
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  • I am sorry :(
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm really sorry... :-(

    Hugs...

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  • I'm sorry hun! Sad

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  • Oh hon, I'm so sorry. Huge hugs.

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  • :::hugs::: I'm sorry, I know how hard it is to give up a loved pet.
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  • I'm so sorry. I couldn't imagine what you're going through. Do you think you'd be able to get a poodle or some terriers that don't shed, they're supposed to be like hypoallergenic? Not that you can replace the pup that you love so much. 
  • I am so sorry to hear this.  That breaks my heart.  Maybe consider what GupppyAmy said about the hypoallergenic, non-shedding dogs?  I don't know if that would help.  (((hugs)))
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  • I'm so sorry you have to take the pup back.  I know your heart has to be aching and I hope things start getting better for ya. 
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    Oh no!  I'm so sorry!

    And shame on that adoption company for making you feel horrible!  If your and your DH's health is in jeapordy, you're definitely doing the right thing!

    All of this. I'm so sad for you. Sad

  • (((hugs)) I'm so sorry.

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  • Oh no!  I'm so sorry hun. Screw the adoption company for treating you like that!  Like you really want to have to give her back :(
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  • i'm so sorry.  and that's not right of the adoption agency to make you feel that way, it's not like you don't want to keep puppy.  :o
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  • I'm so sorry.  ~hugs~
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