FFFC's ... Let's hear them ladies!

carrieannew · August 2010

Andddddddddddddddddd GO!

belle204 · August 2010

It bugs me when people complain b/c they have problems getting pregnant, then complain about things that come with being pregnat and I know they will probably complain after they baby is born. Complaining is natural but did you think it would be a piece of cake?

Jocelyn0415 · August 2010

I hate hearing people complain about how they can't get their child to sleep, but they don't want to do what's necessary to make it happen.

If you have a 1+ year old that's not STTN and you've exhausted all other options, then I say it's time to try CIO.

If you're not willing to do that, stop bitching about how tired you are!

JenR822 · August 2010

This pregnancy has been torture for me, in the bedroom that is, all I wanna do is have sex! UGh ... ok thats it. Since there is no posible way thats happening me and Jack have become bestfriends! I know TMI but its on the brain.

dimake · August 2010

I hate letting my kids watch TV much at home, since I know my mom lets her watch a lot of videos during the week, but I'm hoping if I let her watch "Potty Power" 20x today, she'll get the message...

inbetween · August 2010

I have approx. 3 months until dd starts having overnight visits with h. 15% of me is looking forward to being able to sleep in but the other 85% of me is not looking forward to him having her for 48 hours.

I don't think that he will be able to handle 48 hours at once, when in the last 8 months he has has had her no more then 8 hours a visit.

I will miss her like crazy, and hate not knowing what shes doing/eating or who shes around.

achase123 · August 2010

Jocelyn0415:

I hate hearing people complain about how they can't get their child to sleep, but they don't want to do what's necessary to make it happen.

If you have a 1+ year old that's not STTN and you've exhausted all other options, then I say it's time to try CIO.

If you're not willing to do that, stop bitching about how tired you are!

Completely agree with this.

My FFFC is that I feel 110% RELIEF after ending things with C. I was just starting to enjoy being single and to be honest, I felt sort of controlled when I was around him. Not really by anything in particular but again, just a gut feeling I have. I don't want to have that feeling when I am with someone. I want the person who I ultimately end up with to be an equal not someone who tries to exert power over me. Yuck!

laurieb602 · August 2010

I am slightly angry at my mom for taking my step dad back 5 years ago after we were all there for her after the affair, telling us we had to be nice to him and now that it looks like it's over again, she wants me to hate him and keep my children from seeing him (Alyssa is very close to him, he was her only father figure for many years). I'm also absolutely exhausted from listening to her cry, be angry, cry, be angry...i just want to scream at her...why do you love someone so much who obviously hasn't treated you right for a decade, it's pathetic. I will never say it to her but she needs to pull it together because she's acting like a teenager.

carrieannew · August 2010

laurieb602:
I am slightly angry at my mom for taking my step dad back 5 years ago after we were all there for her after the affair, telling us we had to be nice to him and now that it looks like it's over again, she wants me to hate him and keep my children from seeing him (Alyssa is very close to him, he was her only father figure for many years). I'm also absolutely exhausted from listening to her cry, be angry, cry, be angry...i just want to scream at her...why do you love someone so much who obviously hasn't treated you right for a decade, it's pathetic. I will never say it to her but she needs to pull it together because she's acting like a teenager.

Hey Mama!

I totally understand. My stepdad is an absolute douche in the way of being mean to me over the last 20 years. But my mom stays with him.

My daughter is extremely close to him. Closer than I ever was. And if something happened I would not keep her from him. He has been a grandfather/father figure all these years to her.

Your mom needs to put her big girl panties on. She took him back now she has to deal.

fauxshelley · August 2010

I think pregnant 15 yr olds should terminate as soon as they find out they are pregnant, and then get put on some kind of long term bc like an IUD or a depo shot, something that they cannot forget to take daily. 15 yr olds need to worry about jr high, not having babies.

laurieb602 · August 2010

carrieannew:
laurieb602:
I am slightly angry at my mom for taking my step dad back 5 years ago after we were all there for her after the affair, telling us we had to be nice to him and now that it looks like it's over again, she wants me to hate him and keep my children from seeing him (Alyssa is very close to him, he was her only father figure for many years). I'm also absolutely exhausted from listening to her cry, be angry, cry, be angry...i just want to scream at her...why do you love someone so much who obviously hasn't treated you right for a decade, it's pathetic. I will never say it to her but she needs to pull it together because she's acting like a teenager.

Hey Mama!

I totally understand. My stepdad is an absolute douche in the way of being mean to me over the last 20 years. But my mom stays with him.

My daughter is extremely close to him. Closer than I ever was. And if something happened I would not keep her from him. He has been a grandfather/father figure all these years to her.

Your mom needs to put her big girl panties on. She took him back now she has to deal.

hey lover! I'm just emotionally exhausted for her! I can't even explain it, you'd just have to hear her, I lost a little respect for her, I always thought she was so strong but Lordy, I'm hoping she snaps back soon and realizes she's better off. Oh and she let him back in the house where he has continued to treat her like ***, she complains but does nothing. I need to see some action

nanabanana06 · August 2010

fauxshelley:
I think pregnant 15 yr olds should terminate as soon as they find out they are pregnant, and then get put on some kind of long term bc like an IUD or a depo shot, something that they cannot forget to take daily. 15 yr olds need to worry about jr high, not having babies.

I completely agree! No 15 year old is ready for a child. Hell, I was 19 when I got pregnant and I'm still not even close to being ready! lol. Also, they need to get rid of "abstinence only" sex ed. I went to 2 different high schools. 1 had a very good sex ed course and they taught all forms of contraceptives, there was 1 pregnant girl that I knew of the whole time. The other school taught "abstinence only" and I knew like 10 pregnant teenagers... I'll give you a hint.. it aint working!! lol

Now my FFFC. I have been apart from my ex a whole month. He leaves for PA in less than a week. We both created dating profiles, and I am already talking/seeing another boy. I like having my freedom (kinda) back.