(cross-posted a few places)
Long story short, my 2.5 yr old niece just moved in with us and we are in process of becoming her legal guardians. We have a son who turns 1 yr old in a couple weeks. Just looking for any advice on integrating her into our household without short-changing either child. Especially as she gets older and I have to explain to her why she lives with us and not with her own parents (she was with a grandmother since birth, with the parents sporadically in the picture). I also don't want to give her so much attention that my son gets left out. Just feeling very overwhelmed and hoping there are some who can offer advice.
Thanks in advance.