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She doesn't want IT anymore?!

VeilSdeGTOVeilSdeGTO member
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My mom has a new assistant that is going through some hard times and asked if I would be her friend since she doesn't know anyone here. Sure.

She met a guy online, moved out here to be with him, only to find out he's married (big surprise). However, they're still doing the sneak and peek. Then she decides that if she got pregnant, he would leave his wife. Of course the FH that she is, get's pregnant. He doesn't leave the wife and claims that the baby isn't his.

So now she says she doesn't want "it" anymore. She then asks me about abortion. WTF?! Super Angry

My mom didn't know what was going on or else she wouldn't have asked me to speak with her.

This is why I hate people!

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BFP 7.7.09 - CVS 9.10.09 (Girl) - 9.24.09 Severe Fatal Malformation - D&E 10.7.09 @ 17wks
BFP 6.1.10 - 6.10.10 Ectopic M/C @ 5wks
BFP 10.26.10 - 10.29.10 CP
BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
BFP 6.10.14 - CVS 7.2.14 (Girl) - EDD 1.12.15 - Born sleeping 8.6.14 @ 17w5d
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  • SaraP2010SaraP2010 member
    I really hate that people like this exist in real life and not just on Jerry Springer.  Makes me absolutely sick!
    BFP #1 04/11/10 ~ dx anencephaly
    BFP #2 08/30/10 - DD born 5/18/11 - my little NAIT baby
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  • mandy6418mandy6418
    Thats awful.....
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  • a&b=him&mea&b=him&me member

    are you kidding me?

    So, once she found out he was married she continued to DTD..and then changed it to FWP THINKING in her puny brain that it would SOMEHOW get this MARRIED man to leave his wife? Only to find out SUPRISE he lied again and now she doesn't want this CHILD not an IT.

    Thee ignorance of the world rev's its ugly head.

    She needs to meet the Kracken.

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  • BlakeGBlakeG member
    WOW
    Natural BFP - 2/13/10, Natural M/C - 3/9/10 (Missed m/c found at 8wks 4days) Prenatal B/W shows I'm a Beta Thal carrier & so is DH. Onto IVF w/PGD... Jan 2011 - IVF #1 - C/P Mar 2011 - IVF #2 - Day 5 PGD, no ET, 5 snow babies May 2011 - FET #1 - BFP!! Twins!!! 2/9/12 - Our precious miracles arrived! Baby A 7lbs 13oz & Baby B 5lbs 13oz
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  • awesome-sauceawesome-sauce

    What a cvnt! (I reserve that for special people only.)

    I'm curious what your reply was...

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  • martinimommamartinimomma member
    Wow.  Just...wow.

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    BFP #2 2/2011
    Baby G welcomed with love and relief 10/2011
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  • tctibbetctibbe member
    Angry
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  • VeilSdeGTOVeilSdeGTO member

    I said that she was completely irresponsible! I told her that she didn't deserve to be a mother and that she should consider adoption because there are plenty of people out there that would feel so blessed to have a child.

    I then told her that she should never call me for advice. 

    I then called and cried to my mommy. Crying Unfortunately, my mom says she actually a decent assistant. Ugh!

    My Chart

    My Life

    BFP 7.7.09 - CVS 9.10.09 (Girl) - 9.24.09 Severe Fatal Malformation - D&E 10.7.09 @ 17wks
    BFP 6.1.10 - 6.10.10 Ectopic M/C @ 5wks
    BFP 10.26.10 - 10.29.10 CP
    BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
    BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
    BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
    BFP 6.10.14 - CVS 7.2.14 (Girl) - EDD 1.12.15 - Born sleeping 8.6.14 @ 17w5d
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  • Zed58Zed58
    So many excellent nominees for the "Sucky Person of the Day Award" today...
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    *So proud and so lucky to be the mommy of two beautiful little girls
    and one handsome little man*
    RJ~5.17.2005~born @ 37w due to IUGR~4lbs 15ozs
    Al~4.5.2008~born big and healthy @ 38w~7lbs 9.5ozs
    Lil man~5.20.2011~born big and healthy @ 39w (after one he!! of a pregnancy)~8lbs 1oz
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  • elisbuelisbu member
    Wow.....
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  • e_ueckere_uecker member
    Grrr..Angry What a piece of work. I'm sorry you had to listen to her!
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  • liveforhimliveforhim member
    I have NO words..
    So excited for our little blessing:)
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  • awesome-sauceawesome-sauce
    imageVeilSdeGTO:

    I said that she was completely irresponsible! I told her that she didn't deserve to be a mother and that she should consider adoption because there are plenty of people out there that would feel so blessed to have a child.

    I then told her that she should never call me for advice. 

    I then called and cried to my mommy. Crying Unfortunately, my mom says she actually a decent assistant. Ugh!

    GOOD for you!! Sometimes it seems people skirt around the issue, so i'm happy you set her straight!

    I don't think you're Mom will ask you to be friends with anyone anymore! :)

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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member
    Ugh...I'm sorry you even had to listen to her soap-opera story drama.  Confused
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  • MCH77MCH77 member

    Ick.  Sorry you had to talk with her.

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • pandapepperonipandapepperoni

    I'm so sorry, that sucks. I'm proud of you for being so honest though, good job!

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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    When will people realize that babies do NOT make a man love you. Angry


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    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
     BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

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  • AniegbunaAniegbuna
    I hate dumb bitches
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  • tlcW0714tlcW0714

    Wow. She sucks.

    But good for you for telling her what you thought!!

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  • luckymrs.luckymrs.

    Nauseating.

    I'm so glad you put her in her place.

    That poor baby (and I mean inside her, not actually her).  Sad

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  • KK1109KK1109
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    What a cvnt! (I reserve that for special people only.)


     

    This.  Definitely this.  

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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    I am really glad that you put her in her place. What an awful person!
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    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
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  • Kristin&AdamKristin&Adam
    I am not a violent person, and yet, I want to kick her.
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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    I wish shooting people was legal.

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    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

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    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

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  • shelshel79shelshel79
    That is just sad.  I'm sorry you had to have contact with this person. 
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
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  • lyndsaynicolelyndsaynicole member
    Eww....she sucks.
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  • sunshinenvasunshinenva

    Tell her I am willing to help her out...I will adopt her baby!

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  • damabo80damabo80 member

    imageCashewsMommy:
    When will people realize that babies do NOT make a man love you. Angry

    Word.

    What a twatwaffle. I'm glad you gave it to her straight.


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    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
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