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Not trying to start drama, Firewife

On your fb status. But, her comment hit a nerve. I think I was really nice in my response, but if you want me to delete it I will.

I know I'm not the only one that shuddered, right?

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Re: Not trying to start drama, Firewife

  • LOL, no worries! I replied on her wall. It's okay. And yes, it's a bit of a shudder-worthy comment. But she's basically family, so I don't say too much.

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
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    Dang it I wish I could access FB at work!

    I only can on my phone ... I was intentionally vague, but most people know about my IF, so I guess I should expect to see comments like that etc.  

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

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  • Good.

     But, lol I think I sure did annoy her!!

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    Love & luck to my 3TC girls. Congrats to Omega-The boys are here!
    If there's one thing I've learned while waiting my turn,
    it's that in each life some rain falls but you also get some sun.
    After 2 years & 2 losses, our little man arrived 8-2011.
  • imageAmberZ2be:

    Good.

     But, lol I think I sure did annoy her!!

    Yes, but it's okay! She'll probably call me tonight ... HAHA :)

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

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  • Boo...I must not be friends with Firewife...
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  • imageheathercara:
    Boo...I must not be friends with Firewife...

    I thought we were .... I'm Sarah B....

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

     

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  • imagefirewife9278:
    imageAmberZ2be:

    Good.

     But, lol I think I sure did annoy her!!

    Yes, but it's okay! She'll probably call me tonight ... HAHA :)

    So I shouldn't add a link to resolve.org. ;) Juuuusst Kidding.  I think I am more annoyed with the "sometimes give up and stop stressing" than the "so & so adopted and now have kids"

    Just tell her I'm a biitch and you don't know why you are fb friends with me if it helps. :)

    Infertility, Life & Loss Blog
    imageimage
    Love & luck to my 3TC girls. Congrats to Omega-The boys are here!
    If there's one thing I've learned while waiting my turn,
    it's that in each life some rain falls but you also get some sun.
    After 2 years & 2 losses, our little man arrived 8-2011.
  • imageAmberZ2be:
    imagefirewife9278:
    imageAmberZ2be:

    Good.

     But, lol I think I sure did annoy her!!

    Yes, but it's okay! She'll probably call me tonight ... HAHA :)

    So I shouldn't add a link to resolve.org. ;) Juuuusst Kidding.  I think I am more annoyed with the "sometimes give up and stop stressing" than the "so & so adopted and now have kids"

    Just tell her I'm a biitch and you don't know why you are fb friends with me if it helps. :)

    HAHAHA, never! I <3 you!! I just chalk her comment up to someone who doesn't have much experience with IF. I HATE the "stop stressing" comment .... it's like, stop worrying about your husband's super dangerous job, the fact that he's gone for days at a time when you're doing TI cycles, the weight gain from the medications, the horrific side effects etc .... yeah right!!

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

     

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  • imagefirewife9278:
    imageAmberZ2be:
    imagefirewife9278:
    imageAmberZ2be:

    Good.

     But, lol I think I sure did annoy her!!

    Yes, but it's okay! She'll probably call me tonight ... HAHA :)

    So I shouldn't add a link to resolve.org. ;) Juuuusst Kidding.  I think I am more annoyed with the "sometimes give up and stop stressing" than the "so & so adopted and now have kids"

    Just tell her I'm a biitch and you don't know why you are fb friends with me if it helps. :)

    HAHAHA, never! I <3 you!! I just chalk her comment up to someone who doesn't have much experience with IF. I HATE the "stop stressing" comment .... it's like, stop worrying about your husband's super dangerous job, the fact that he's gone for days at a time when you're doing TI cycles, the weight gain from the medications, the horrific side effects etc .... yeah right!!

    I <3 you too, that is why I couldn't keep my big mouth closed! Well, maybe, just maybe, it will make her think twice before she says something else.

    Infertility, Life & Loss Blog
    imageimage
    Love & luck to my 3TC girls. Congrats to Omega-The boys are here!
    If there's one thing I've learned while waiting my turn,
    it's that in each life some rain falls but you also get some sun.
    After 2 years & 2 losses, our little man arrived 8-2011.
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    imageheathercara:
    Boo...I must not be friends with Firewife...

    I thought we were .... I'm Sarah B....

    Let me start again...boo...I'm an idiot :)  I was looking and looking...but it was further back then I had thought.  Should have not read it as I wanted to say that you do annoy Sarah but she's too nice to tell you...but had to remind myself that it's not my place!!  I know that loss of hope feeling.  I'll say a prayer that it comes back for you...it usually does for me.

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  • ooo...I just logged on to look and had to bite my tongue not to tell her what a *** thing that was to say.  One of my co-irkers is blocked from commenting on any of my status updates because she says stupid sh!t like that all the time.


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    2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
    TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
    Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14

    I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929

  • Ahhh, the bitter card!!!
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    Love & luck to my 3TC girls. Congrats to Omega-The boys are here!
    If there's one thing I've learned while waiting my turn,
    it's that in each life some rain falls but you also get some sun.
    After 2 years & 2 losses, our little man arrived 8-2011.
  • I just saw this post, but I saw the FB thing on my cell! I love being called BITTER! It makes my day just awesome!

    S you know we love ya right? But I want to biitch slap your friend! LOL

  • imageheathercara:
    imagefirewife9278:

    imageheathercara:
    Boo...I must not be friends with Firewife...

    I thought we were .... I'm Sarah B....

    Let me start again...boo...I'm an idiot :)  I was looking and looking...but it was further back then I had thought.  Should have not read it as I wanted to say that you do annoy Sarah but she's too nice to tell you...but had to remind myself that it's not my place!!  I know that loss of hope feeling.  I'll say a prayer that it comes back for you...it usually does for me.

    HAHAHA!! Thanks ... :):)

    Actually, it kind of cheers me up reading this one and the one on FB ... it is keeping me busy for the day! I'm starting to get hopeful again since I am starting a new cycle today. I just have to think positively.

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

     

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    I just saw this post, but I saw the FB thing on my cell! I love being called BITTER! It makes my day just awesome!

    S you know we love ya right? But I want to biitch slap your friend! LOL

    yes, yes!! :) My cousin is a bit fiesty too ... it's all okay :)

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

     

    www.MyVacationCountdown.com Ticker

  • what comment was it? I replied to the "stop stressing" part. God, that annoyed me.
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  • Can I post a link to infertility etiquette from resolve.org?

    My tongue is probably bleeding I'm biting so hard. :)

    Infertility, Life & Loss Blog
    imageimage
    Love & luck to my 3TC girls. Congrats to Omega-The boys are here!
    If there's one thing I've learned while waiting my turn,
    it's that in each life some rain falls but you also get some sun.
    After 2 years & 2 losses, our little man arrived 8-2011.
  • Ugh, no kidding!  I think even worse for me was that she said she adopted and now has kids "of her own."  Like adoption doesn't result in your own children.

    Plus - why does everyone know someone who knows someone who adopted then got pregnant?!

    You made me laugh with that comment, though, Amber.  :)

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  • imageAmberZ2be:

    Can I post a link to infertility etiquette from resolve.org?

    My tongue is probably bleeding I'm biting so hard. :)

    OMG! Don't make yourself bleed!!!! It's up to you ... I'm SO sorry for the drama!

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

     

    www.MyVacationCountdown.com Ticker

  • imagefirewife9278:
    imageAmberZ2be:

    Can I post a link to infertility etiquette from resolve.org?

    My tongue is probably bleeding I'm biting so hard. :)

    OMG! Don't make yourself bleed!!!! It's up to you ... I'm SO sorry for the drama!

    Don't you dare apologize! I'm the one that can't stop reading her "updates" to the status.

     

    Infertility, Life & Loss Blog
    imageimage
    Love & luck to my 3TC girls. Congrats to Omega-The boys are here!
    If there's one thing I've learned while waiting my turn,
    it's that in each life some rain falls but you also get some sun.
    After 2 years & 2 losses, our little man arrived 8-2011.
  • ams, FTW!
    Infertility, Life & Loss Blog
    imageimage
    Love & luck to my 3TC girls. Congrats to Omega-The boys are here!
    If there's one thing I've learned while waiting my turn,
    it's that in each life some rain falls but you also get some sun.
    After 2 years & 2 losses, our little man arrived 8-2011.
  • imageAmberZ2be:
    imagefirewife9278:
    imageAmberZ2be:

    Can I post a link to infertility etiquette from resolve.org?

    My tongue is probably bleeding I'm biting so hard. :)

    OMG! Don't make yourself bleed!!!! It's up to you ... I'm SO sorry for the drama!

    Don't you dare apologize! I'm the one that can't stop reading her "updates" to the status.

    I do feel bad though :(

    It's passing the afternoon quite nicely ... as long as my boss doesn't walk by and see that I've been on my phone all day!

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

     

    www.MyVacationCountdown.com Ticker

  • I had to say something....I just couldn't ignore her last comment.  I did, however, refrain from telling her to DIAF, which is what I would have done on here.


    imageimage
    2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
    TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
    Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14

    I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929

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