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stolen poll: Sexual bucket list

clynn58clynn58 member
in February 2011 Moms

How many of these have you ladies done?!! Tell the truth and shame the devil. 

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What sexual things should everyone experience before they die? And how does someone who married young rank against those who didn't?

I got married at 25 and started dating my husband seriously at 23.

Prior to that, I was in two very serious relationships (both of which ended in engagements) over several years and those three men sum up the grand total of my sexual experience. But what I lack in number of partners, I like to think I make up for in enthusiasm and can-do excitement.

I know I lucked out when I met Rob, so I would trade a few wild and crazy sexual experiences for the really good one of meeting my soul mate at 23 (actually, we met at 10) -- but this idea of "sexual bucket lists" does intrigue me.

Ninety percent of these can be done in the context of a loving, safe marriage (like mine). The rest, alas, I will have to leave to the single gals among us. But here is a list of 50 sexual must-dos before you die.

  1. Kiss a girl
  2. Have anal
  3. Have a threesome
  4. Engage in group sex
  5. Have phone sex
  6. Masturbate
  7. Use a vibrator
  8. Use a sex toy on someone else
  9. Be tied up
  10. Tie someone up
  11. Have sex in a public space
  12. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)
  13. Sex in a car
  14. Sex at a drive-in
  15. Mile-high club
  16. Sex with a stranger
  17. One-night stand
  18. Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)
  19. Sex on a boat
  20. Sex in a body of water
  21. Light spanking
  22. Read erotica
  23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game
  24. Sex in the shower
  25. Sex standing up against a wall
  26. Sex with no kissing
  27. Sex in the pitch black
  28. Sex in the broad daylight
  29. Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin
  30. Sex in a tent in the wilderness
  31. Watch porn together
  32. Watch porn alone
  33. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms
  34. Sex on the beach
  35. Blindfolds
  36. Using ice sexually
  37. Sexual role play
  38. Whipped cream
  39. La Perla lingerie sex
  40. Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex
  41. Sex with someone much older
  42. Sex with someone younger (legal!)
  43. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner
  44. A quickie in a skirt
  45. A longie in the rain
  46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you
  47. Feather ticklers
  48. Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else
  49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone
  50. Silent sex in a full house

 How many of these have you ladies done?!! Tell the truth and shame the devil.

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Re: stolen poll: Sexual bucket list

  • clynn58clynn58 member

    No one is brave enough to post how dirty they really are.

    my number is 35 and yes im kinda sluttyStick out tongue

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  • Annierose1Annierose1
    I've done 28 of those things, and they have all been with my husband. Including the one night stand, I'm embarassed to say we met at a party, I got WAY to drunk and had my first one night stand with him. I never expected to hear from him again and he called me the following weekend and we've been together ever since =)
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  • clynn58clynn58 member

    imageAnnieRose321:
    I've done 28 of those things, and they have all been with my husband. Including the one night stand, I'm embarassed to say we met at a party, I got WAY to drunk and had my first one night stand with him. I never expected to hear from him again and he called me the following weekend and we've been together ever since =)

    That is actually how Dh and I meet too.

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  • mary811mary811
    29 for me :) 
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  • eep9906eep9906 member
    I've done 30.
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  • Jessie_eaJessie_ea member
    Only 21 for me. Maybe it's because I've been with DH since I was 16?
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  • steenie41steenie41

    26.... I feel like kind of a prude. Though I will say there are some things on there I would NEVER do and others that made me wonder why I haven't tried them yet :)

    So.... to make this more interesting... I am going to add 2 questions:

    1. Is there anything on the list you would NEVER do?

    anal, group sex/threesome, one night stand (I would have in college, but now its too late, lol)

    2. What do you want to try?

    sex on the beach, sex in the ocean...

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  • JazzyMom2BJazzyMom2B

    I guess im the hoochie of the bunch.  i scored a 44.Embarrassed

     

    extra q's

    things i would never do:

    1. Have a threesome
    2. Engage in group sex
    3. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex
    4. Sex with a stranger
    5. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you
    6. Sex on the beach (sand... ouch)

    what do i want to try?

    Ummmm, i think I've covered it all.  Embarrassed

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  • david_n_coledavid_n_cole member
    I'm at 42. Guess I better get my husband on board to finish the remaining 8 on the list.
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  • MrsStreffMrsStreff member
    I have done 16 of the above things, hahah I am the saint of the group:)
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  • thuckabeethuckabee
    37! ahd i've been with DH since I was 17....we're adventurous :)
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  • heehee611heehee611
    Only 13 of them... I'm kind of boring  Embarrassed
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  • Ashley6021Ashley6021
    My number is 33!!!! Ha ha and LO was conceived while doing a couple of these!!!! :)
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  • kimolykimoly

    34. Many with DH, thankfully!

    I am not into group sex or sex with a stranger (cooties!)

    I would like to be sexual with ice - why haven't I done that yet?!?

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  • AACraven85AACraven85 member
    40, and not ashamed to admit it either! You only live once Wink
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  • nycjennynycjenny
    31... not too shabby
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  • JazzyMom2BJazzyMom2B
    daaaaang.... im STILL the hoochie.  ugh.  oh well... i had fun! 
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  • Whitney DDWhitney DD
    My number is 40.... yeah. But I don't think its slutty if a lot of them were with the same person. 
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  • SerpentesbrideSerpentesbride

    Done 40 of them. I will not participate in a group but thats all that I am out on. Oh and the threesome thing...totally over rated

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  • AggieBeth06AggieBeth06 member
    31, and I'm surprised. I thought I was quite the wild child before DH and I got together...


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  • maleigh101maleigh101 member
    34
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    23
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  • TiffanyTheMomTiffanyTheMom member
    I've only done 13!! And by married sex, that not only means with your DH, but maybe a time in your life when you may or may not have had a sort of affair with a married man, right?
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  • PatienceKWPatienceKW

    29...guess I'm not as hoochie as I thought! LOL

    ...and this LO was a result of #50...but most of the house was buzzed/drunk...lol

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  • TessCPDFTessCPDF
    31.  I'm pretty sure that #50 is how DS was conceived.  =)
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