I am so fvcking mad right now

Scout05 · August 2010

You know that moron who posted the "lucky" post on first the other day?

Guess what? According to her, the NT scan can't tell you anything. Oh, and she felt it appropriate to quote my loss story about B.C. and then say "actually, it can't give you a diagnosis. Most of my friends had false postives anyway and I would NEVER terminate!"

You know what, peaches? I've been there, you haven't. You don't know what the hell you are talking about and don't you DARE lecture me on that scan or what it can/cannot tell you. I went through fvcking hell and I re-live it every day of my life.

I'm shaking I am so furious right now.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/41666715.aspx

It's at the end, if you care to read.

AppleRidge · August 2010

Snarling, ready to attack...

Scout05 · August 2010

And I'm sorry, you all probably don't want to deal with this, I was seeing red and just posted without thinking. I'll DD in a minute, if you want.

Court1 · August 2010

No need to DD Allison. Fvck her. I've seen her post asshat comments before over there too.

CarrieLeigh84 · August 2010

Whatever. Her baby has a unibrow.

KristysRedBarn · August 2010

I'm so sorry Allison. The girl is beyond stupid and insensitive. I hate that she is spreading false information. You do not need to DD, we still want to hear from you and your more than welcome to post what you wish here.

OCIrishBruin · August 2010

Don't DD. She deserves everything she gets for what she said. I can't believe she is continuing to try to justify what she posted. (hugs)

GuppyAmy · August 2010

Some people are SO stupid/insensitive/crazy/ stupid mother fvckers! I'm sorry you had to meet one today.

babes12 · August 2010

No please don't DD. it's very important that people here know too that the NT scan is important.

the NT scan is where we discovered that i had abnormal blood work and the babies risk for downs was 1/270. that's when we went for further testing etc... of course i opted not to do the amnio which looking back now i wish i would have done since the further u/s's showed everything was ok w/ the baby.

It's so easy for people to say they wouldn't terminate and i know many people wouldn't but looking back on my pregnancy i carried on blissfully happy expecting to have a normal baby b/c i opted not to get the amnio done. if i would have gotten it done i could have prepared myself or at least gotten some knowledge on the situation before being blindsided and having my world turned upside down in a few days. (

Aubs0009 · August 2010

Oh Allison I am so sorry. People are so fvcking stupid sometimes. (( Hugs))

Olive44 · August 2010

Pure idiocy. Grrrrr's response was incredible....award-winning.

Scout05 · August 2010

Monica, as always, perfection.

I know, I need to walk away. I am going to, there's no point.

grr_aargh · August 2010

ambrandau2:

Monica, as always, perfection.

I know, I need to walk away. I am going to, there's no point.

When I delivered the line "Consider this my diagnostic for twatness" in my recounting to DH, he may have squeed a little bit and then said "You think Allison'll, at the very least, enjoy THAT?".

Mocha Girl · August 2010

Allison, I just wanted to give you some (((hugs))) and let you know that I was in tears reading that post and also your blog entry. Sure, I'm a little extra sensitive this week with my 2nd EDD just around the corner, but I also had to make that horrible decision with my first pregnancy. I remember all too well sitting in that chair across from my doctor and learning about the fatal diagnosis. This brings back so many horrible memories and I am so sorry that you also had to go through this. I was 16 weeks along and I just switched doctors because mine had left the practice. The new doctor did an ultrasound since I was a new patient and sent me to the hospital that very same day to meet with a high risk specialist. Just thinking about that day gives me chills.... That day rocked my world and I will never be the same.

OK, so now I have to stop crying at work! Again, many (((hugs))) to you!

surfergirlkona · August 2010

That just pissed me off so much. Allison, I am so sorry she is such a douche and cannot just apologize. Point missed.

Scout05 · August 2010

Mocha Girl:

Allison, I just wanted to give you some (((hugs))) and let you know that I was in tears reading that post and also your blog entry. Sure, I'm a little extra sensitive this week with my 2nd EDD just around the corner, but I also had to make that horrible decision with my first pregnancy. I remember all too well sitting in that chair across from my doctor and learning about the fatal diagnosis. This brings back so many horrible memories and I am so sorry that you also had to go through this. I was 16 weeks along and I just switched doctors because mine had left the practice. The new doctor did an ultrasound since I was a new patient and sent me to the hospital that very same day to meet with a high risk specialist. Just thinking about that day gives me chills.... That day rocked my world and I will never be the same.

OK, so now I have to stop crying at work! Again, many (((hugs))) to you!

::Hugs:::

I'm so sorry, love. It's just such a raw nerve, isn't it?

3ltlones · August 2010

I'm so sorry Allison, as from her post yesterday she is a complete idiot...she just continues to prove so.

Monica...perfection.

Mocha Girl · August 2010

ambrandau2:
Mocha Girl:

::Hugs:::

I'm so sorry, love. It's just such a raw nerve, isn't it?

Oh, absolutely and I think that chick needs a swift kick to the vag...

sevenonesix · August 2010

grr_aargh:
ambrandau2:

Monica, as always, perfection.
I know, I need to walk away. I am going to, there's no point.
When I delivered the line "Consider this my diagnostic for twatness" in my recounting to DH, he may have squeed a little bit and then said "You think Allison'll, at the very least, enjoy THAT?".

I seriously spit my coke out.... i effing love you Monica.

Allison, don't DD. that b*tch deserves all of the attention she's getting - she's a twatwaffle who has no heart and absolutely no decency. If I could find an online article that says so, I'd quote her that link in a second.

SweetieD21 · August 2010

I'm sorry honey Sad

Some people just suck, plain and simple.

triple_sevens · August 2010

Allison, your answers in that post were wonderful. She sounds like a sense and empathy deficient slag.

Amanda78 · August 2010

grr_aargh:
ambrandau2:

Monica, as always, perfection.

I know, I need to walk away. I am going to, there's no point.

When I delivered the line "Consider this my diagnostic for twatness" in my recounting to DH, he may have squeed a little bit and then said "You think Allison'll, at the very least, enjoy THAT?".

It was pure brilliance!! I'm so sorry Allison. She sucks at life clearly and is an ignorant @sshole. Hugs and love to you.

Shemico · August 2010

*hugs* what a piece of work.

johannaknip · August 2010

I'm sorry love.

Monica, I think your twatdar is broken. 50/50 odds are much too nice.

grr_aargh · August 2010

johannaknip:

I'm sorry love.

Monica, I think your twatdar is broken. 50/50 odds are much too nice.

Well, it is just a screening, not a diagnostic.

schen0510 · August 2010

I just don't get what is wrong with some people! Seriously...this b!tch needs to just keep her fvcking mouth shut. I hate when people talk all holier than thow when they know sh!t!