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TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
CarrieLeigh84
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Why so quiet?
CarrieLeigh84
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Is my bitterness seeping through? Why is no one talking. It's quiet here today.
Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008
M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010
My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
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Re: Why so quiet?
I am in a foul mood today. First my CHs were taken away, then I find out that my friend (who I shared an EDD with) just had her baby last night AND she used my girl name.... I am full of hate and I'm trying really hard not to spread my rage.
So someone, please entertain me!
Me too...ultra foul mood. Our car blew up yesterday (starter went completely bonkers) and I'm sitting here waiting for a tow truck to haul it to the repair place.
And in spite of a cute little triphasic chart, BFN. My LP is never longer than 12 days so AF should be here tomorrow or Wednesday. Fvck it.
12 long, hard years of TTC-
Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF
Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!
BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)
Oh! I'm also full of hate and rage! Except.. I've kind of stopped caring if I spread it around.
I'm in a bad, bad place.
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
whoa Mocha girl!! You have every right to be in a foul mood! Grr! Want me to beat her up?
I'm trying to plan my house redecorating(IT DESPERATELY NEEDS IT) and just trying to figure out where to start and how to start..such a long road ahead..why can't I just be independently wealthy and hire some person to come do it all for me and make it look fabulous!
Oh wow girl. You have the right to spread rage! I'm sorry.
What a FH of the first order. I'm sorry honey.
FYI: The baby doesn't have a forehead.... I mean, it's there, but it's covered in dark hair. Eyebrows = hairline.
LOL - Sorry. Poor little girl!
Oh sweetie I totally get that!
Two of my very good friends are preg. and I'm irrationally terrified they are going to take "my" baby name.
You have every right to rage. That is the absolute effing worst, right there.
Maybe we should send out announcements with all of the names that we want to claim.... Just throw it out there so if anyone uses the name(s), you had it first!
Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11
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My Life
BFP 7.7.09 - CVS 9.10.09 (Girl) - 9.24.09 Severe Fatal Malformation - D&E 10.7.09 @ 17wks
BFP 6.1.10 - 6.10.10 Ectopic M/C @ 5wks
BFP 10.26.10 - 10.29.10 CP
BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
BFP 6.10.14 - CVS 7.2.14 (Girl) - EDD 1.12.15 - Born sleeping 8.6.14 @ 17w5d
OMG. I want to b*tch slap her for you. I'm so sorry.
I really don't think there's enough taking to the vapors in today's society. I say go for it!!
Of course, when you get to be my age, you don't have to worry so much about people taking your names...because they already took them years ago and their kids are in grade school. One of my college friends "took" my name, and her daughter is about a year from graduating HS. I wonder if there's a statue of limitations by which I could still use the name since the kids will be an entire generation apart almost?
Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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