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Pregnant after a Loss
str8ota
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If there is a biggest twat award then I have a winner!
str8ota
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H's bff was in town over the weekend and we do things with he and his wife when they are here or we are up north, obviously with my situation only h went out with them (bf (minus wife, she was shopping) was nice enough to come by and visit me in the hospital). 7 years ago his wife was pregnant and had to be rushed to a hospital 4 hours away because her water broke at 33 weeks. They were in the hospitl for 4 weeks and fortunately everything turned out fine with their little girl and 9 months later she got pregnant again and had a healthy, normal pregnancy. Over the years we have always sent Christmas and birthday gifts and have always asked for pics to hang on our fridge. We have always asked about their girls and spent time with them when we're in town despite what we were going through, because it's not their fault and we adore their girls. This most recent year we didn't send gifts because we started the adoption procedure and had to cut back in places (bf is one of our adoption references). BF's wife wants another baby but bf does not. Now keep in mind they know about all of our losses and our 4 year struggle to have a baby, on several drunk occasions she has offered to be our surrogate.
Since I have been in the hospital she has not called or texted me once. H asked her Saturday night what was going on and this was her response: I don't feel like hearing her talk about the baby.
Can anyone beat this?
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Re: If there is a biggest twat award then I have a winner!
Twin boys born too early at 17w4d and 18w2d in February 2010
Transabdominal cerclage placed September 2010
DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
diagnosed with heterozygous Factor V Leiden 2008; m/c 11/09 @ 5 1/2 wks; m/c 5/10 @ 4 1/2 wks; RLP testing done, diagnosed with antiphospholipid syn. and low progesterone; 7/10 started on Heparin injections & progesterone supps @ 3 dpo, BFP 8/9/10!!!
WOW! She needs a total throat punch!
Otherwise...how are you feeling?
BFP#1 1.28.10; HB 6w5d 2.18.10; No HB 3.8.10; Natural m/c 3.9.10 at 9w3d
BFP#2 - 7.22.10 DD born 3.16.11
BFP#3 - 8.11.11 DS born 3.27.12
I hate her with the fire of a thousand suns.
If she's that bitter about not having another kid, how can she possibly stand to be around her oh-so-evil DH?
BF and their girls, that biitch no longer exists!
-m/c at 11w2d due to partial molar 2008 -m/c #2 2009
Beautiful daughter born February 2011
**Ultimate TTCALer 2009**
MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
BFP #4 5/8/11
BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
Yep, she wins the award, but I must say kudos to you and your husband for taking a united stand on how you'll handle them in future.If a person is going to be that rude, they're not really a friend to begin with and I think you're saving yourself a lot of heartache.
And you've got to feel like you're supported if your DH is just as offended. I have to admit, my DH and I have a good relationship, but I don't know that he'd be as willing to take that strong of a stance if this happened to us. I probably would, but I'm pretty ready and quick to admit when a friendship has run its course for one reason or another.
Oh H#LL NO! That's just rude - she wins! I'm sorry, you don't need that kind of frustration. [[hugs]]
Cuntbucket.
Giant Bucket of Cvnts.
I am so sorry that she said something so incredibly heartless.
Harper Oksana, born on her due date, January 20, 2011, and the love of my life
OMGOSH words can not even........
I'm so sorry.
BTW, what did your H say to her after that comment?
She said something like I hope you don't hate me, he didn't respond, he just walked away.
She was drunk that night but considering I have been here for 4 weeks and have not heard from her that being drunk did not matter.
Biitch...I'm done with her and I don't even know her! Meanwhile her poor H is probably trying to use the "Oh she was drunk and stupid she didn't mean anything by it!"
Unreal.
What a cvnt!
Wow, I can't believe how insensitive she is. I am ready to punch her for you.
Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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