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DH spilled the beans!

sparkymcgeeesparkymcgeee member
in May 2011 Moms
We agreed not to tell anyone and he spilled the beans today to his mom. We are only 3 weeks along and wanted to wait until after the first ultrasound at least. Has anyone else told people?


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  • sparkymcgeeesparkymcgeee member
    Yeah we are excited its just that we just went through a really rough m/c. We had told everyone and we weren't expecting to get pregnant this quickly. I hadn't even had my first period post m/c yet. I just don't want to have to go through another loss and have to tell people about it again. I just hope this is a sticky baby and we won't have to go through that.


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  • jodyrmjodyrm member

    We told our whole family right away. Last time I had a m/c at eight weeks, and we hadn't told anyone.. it was much harder telling everyone well I WAS pregnant, but now I'm not.

     

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  • CMH25CMH25 member

    Lots of sticky baby dust to you!

    We conceived via IVF and after 19 months most of our close friends and family know what our situation is.  Because of this, it is hard to not tell... they are all waiting anxiously just like us!  It is a great support system.  My general rule is... if things went badly, would I tell them and want support from them?  If so, then I have no reason not to share the good news.

    Good luck!

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    Lots of sticky baby dust to you!

    We conceived via IVF and after 19 months most of our close friends and family know what our situation is.  Because of this, it is hard to not tell... they are all waiting anxiously just like us!  It is a great support system.  My general rule is... if things went badly, would I tell them and want support from them?  If so, then I have no reason not to share the good news.

    Good luck!

    Oh CMH I am really excited for you. I can't understand what you went through to get this but I can tell how much you love your baby.



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    imageCMH25:

    Lots of sticky baby dust to you!

    We conceived via IVF and after 19 months most of our close friends and family know what our situation is.  Because of this, it is hard to not tell... they are all waiting anxiously just like us!  It is a great support system.  My general rule is... if things went badly, would I tell them and want support from them?  If so, then I have no reason not to share the good news.

    Good luck!

    Thank you, you are so sweet! 

    Oh CMH I am really excited for you. I can't understand what you went through to get this but I can tell how much you love your baby.

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    imagemeimsx:
    imageCMH25:

    Lots of sticky baby dust to you!

    We conceived via IVF and after 19 months most of our close friends and family know what our situation is.  Because of this, it is hard to not tell... they are all waiting anxiously just like us!  It is a great support system.  My general rule is... if things went badly, would I tell them and want support from them?  If so, then I have no reason not to share the good news.

    Good luck!

     

    Oh CMH I am really excited for you. I can't understand what you went through to get this but I can tell how much you love your baby.

    Thank you, you are so sweet! 

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  • DeniseMattDeniseMatt member
    Ive told my mom, sister, and my 2 BFFs...  Were not telling other immediate family until after Labor Day...  Matt wanted to tell his family in person and thats the next time we'll see them...  Planning on telling the world (facebook) after our 1st u/s on Sept 23rd!

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  • moogieboomoogieboo member

    imagemeimsx:
    Yeah we are excited its just that we just went through a really rough m/c. We had told everyone and we weren't expecting to get pregnant this quickly.

     Us too. We had told almost everyone the first time and I had the m/c at 10weeks. DH doesn't want to tell anyone, even our parents. I've told my closest friends. DH has told no one. My parents are out of town and I'm going home in september to visit for five days...there is no way I'm going to be able to keep quiet. I'm too close to them, they'll know something's up...especially when i don't get in their brand new hot tub.

    I think it's different for everyone. I liked having a lot of support after my m/c. It can be hard to "untell" people, though.

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