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Feeling Lost but need to carry on

asltrouble94asltrouble94
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I had my D & E 4 days ago for a MMC.  I work in a medical office where ob/gyn is located so logically I know these things happen for a reason but it doesn't make the heartbreak any easier.  I have not been to work since being told of my MMC but I go back tomorrow and have to watch all those happy pregnant bellies come in for their appts, it is going to be so very hard.  I have 2 beautiful little girls who I am very thankful for every day, but how do I go about my day seeing those pregnant bellies and babies, knowing that I will never get to see mine and still put on the strong mom front when I get home for my girls? 
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Re: Feeling Lost but need to carry on

  • carrieandtimcarrieandtim member

    My heart goes out to you -- I cannot begin to imagine how difficult it would be to go back to work near an ob/gyn office.  You are right -- the hurt you feel does not become easier just because you know "these things happen." 

    You'll be in my thoughts and prayers as you go back to work and put on that strong mom front...even though you don't always have to be strong.

    Your day will come!

    Married my best friend ~ May 31, 2008
    Adopted our furbaby Kona ~ January 17, 2010
    Trying to grow our family ~ June 2010

    1st BFP 7.6.10 ~ EDD 3.15.11 ~ mmc 8.6.10 ~ d&c 8.11.10
    2nd BFP 11.4.10 ~ EDD 7.15.11 ~ HB 6w3d ~ No HB 7w ~ mmc 12.8.10 ~ d&c 12.9.10
    3rd BFP 7.12.11 ~ EDD 3.22.12 ~ HB 6w5d 124 bpm ~ Team Green ~     SHE STUCK!
    4th BFP 6.20.13 ~ EDD 3.1.14 ~ HB 7w5d 153 bpm ~ A/S revealed due date possibly 2.23
    *~*~*~*EXPECT MIRACLES*~*~*~*
    Praying for peace in God's ultimate plan ~ "Be still and know that I am God." -Psalm 46:10


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  • court2211court2211
    I am so sorry...Good Luck with work tomorrow. (((hugs)))
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    I'm so sorry.  That must be incredibly difficult to have to work in a place like that.  Sending you hugs.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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  • Runnergirl2242Runnergirl2242 member
    I am so sorry that would be so hard to see the bellys. You will be able to provide comfort and support to anyone else that comes in and goes through a pregnancy loss. I would have been thankful if someone had been there to offer a hug as I was crying while paying my co-pay. So maybe you will be able to really help someone who is going through the same pain. **HUG**
    DS Born 10/05/99 DSS Born 7/11/95 BFP 05/11/10 - Missed M/C, D&C 06/23/10 BFP 8/3/2010 - Ectopic, Methotrexate 8/17/10 BFP 1/27/11- Please God let this heart beat strong. Beta1 17dpo-314 Beta2 20dpo-883 Beta3 22dpo-1861 Beta4 25dpo-5918 DS2 Born 10/07/99 "I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the LORD. For his whole life he shall be given over to the LORD." 1Sam1v24to28.
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