TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Just had a sad realization.

I've been blessed the last 4 years as my paths have crossed with 4 other couples that are all struggling with infertility.  For the last 4 years we've shared the ups and downs - I could be honest about what I was feeling - and there was always someone else who understood.

I just realized tonight that I'm the last one.

I'm the last one.

They've all gotten pregnant. 

 

I can't believe I'm the only was who's still in this.  

And I can't complain too badly....they still understand and care for me on this journey.  But they're pregnant, and I'm not.  

I can't believe it. 

Re: Just had a sad realization.

  • {{{{HUGS}}}}...I hope I see that BFP on Monday!
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
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  • (((HUGS))) i'm so sorry.  i'm sure that does not feel good.  i wish this process could be easier.  I hope your time will come and you will be blessed w/ a LO.  (hugs)  i hope you find comfort here w/ us ladies.  ;o)
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  • It's your time, honey. It has to be.

    :::hugs:::

  • imageambrandau2:

    It's your time, honey. It has to be.

    :::hugs:::

    this totally!
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
  • {{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}

    I hope that you get your BFP soon.

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers IVF #1 BFP Beta #1 528 & Beta #2 1514
  • ((hugs))
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  • imageswanck:

    I've been blessed the last 4 years as my paths have crossed with 4 other couples that are all struggling with infertility.  For the last 4 years we've shared the ups and downs - I could be honest about what I was feeling - and there was always someone else who understood.

    I just realized tonight that I'm the last one.

    I'm the last one.

    They've all gotten pregnant. 

     

    I can't believe I'm the only was who's still in this.  

    And I can't complain too badly....they still understand and care for me on this journey.  But they're pregnant, and I'm not.  

    I can't believe it. 

     

    Thanks girls.  

    You'll never know the comfort and support I get from y'all.  I don't know how I'd do this without you.  Especially now. 

  • imageswanck:
    imageswanck:

    I've been blessed the last 4 years as my paths have crossed with 4 other couples that are all struggling with infertility.  For the last 4 years we've shared the ups and downs - I could be honest about what I was feeling - and there was always someone else who understood.

    I just realized tonight that I'm the last one.

    I'm the last one.

    They've all gotten pregnant. 

     

    I can't believe I'm the only was who's still in this.  

    And I can't complain too badly....they still understand and care for me on this journey.  But they're pregnant, and I'm not.  

    I can't believe it. 

     

    Thanks girls.  

    You'll never know the comfort and support I get from y'all.  I don't know how I'd do this without you.  Especially now. 

    Muah love you!
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
  • Sending big hugs your way. I am hoping you get your bfp soon.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • Oh hun..HUGS!!! I hope you get your bfp this cycle....Fingers crossed!
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  • I'm sending hugs your way.  It's hard to feel happy for someone when you are so sad about your situation.  I went through this Friday night with the couple we went out with.  I hope you get your BFP soon so you can all share in the joy together.
    Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
  • imageambrandau2:

    It's your time, honey. It has to be.

    :::hugs:::

    Yes. I'm sorry. I'm sorry that this path is so long and treacherous for some people - often the people who are just the most awesome and loving people. And while I'm glad for your friends, I'm even more hopeful that you're right behind them.
  • This makes me so sad. Being left behind truly stings. I'm so sorry and I pray you can move on soon, too.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • Giant Teddy Bear Hugs coming your way.  I'm so sorry hun.
  • ((Huge Hugs)) Your time is coming honey, I know it!!
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  • (((hugs)))  I'm so sorry.  It all seems so unfair.  I really hope your time is right around the corner.
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  • imagejen629:
    imageambrandau2:

    It's your time, honey. It has to be.

    :::hugs:::

    this totally!

    I agree!  HUGS.  T&P for your BFP this cycle.

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