Community› The Bump Message Boards› TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
New Discussion

Surgery Scheduled and FML...

maceymay1816maceymay1816 member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

So I found out today I go in for a pretty extensive cleaning of my insides on Sept. 13th which is good.  I have been having a pretty positive attitude about all the doc had to say this week and trying to think that there is hope.  Well this weekend is DH's birthday and we went out with some friends tonight for dinner. 

Here's a history of the couple:  She works part time, goes to school and is working on 2nd masters degree cuz she doesn't want to pay back her student loans.  Her DH is receiving unemployment and getting paid under the table.  They don't have insurance and are committing fraud.  And of course at dinner she tells us she is KU. 

 My positive attitude has left the building and I'm with Kristy, if one more person tells me God has a plan the next time you see me will be on that show "Snapped".

Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
Report Reply to Post

Re: Surgery Scheduled and FML...

  • Cissi64Cissi64

    Just because God has a plan doesn't mean it is easy or we have to like it all the time.  God's plan for me tha last 2 1/2 years has sucked big time.  I am trying to keep a better attitude ,also but situations like what happened to you keep happening to me, too.  I keep telling myself that these things come from Satan instead of God.

    I'm praying that some time in Oct or Nov. "God's plan" for you will change and your postitive attitude will be permanent!

    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

    PAL/PGAL Welcome

    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • Mrs.EmmaLouiseMrs.EmmaLouise member
    A "serious cleaning of your insides" sounds about as fun as dinner with that couple.  I hope your surgery goes well, and that you never have dinner with that couple again.  ((HUGS))
    ***** TTCAL/Forever Buddy to Cour10e******
    -m/c at 11w2d due to partial molar 2008 -m/c #2 2009
    Beautiful daughter born February 2011
    image
    **Ultimate TTCALer 2009**

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member
    I am so sorry that you have to go through all of this. ((((((Big Hugs)))))). I hope that you do not have to see that couple anymore.
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers IVF #1 BFP Beta #1 528 & Beta #2 1514
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"