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Wonderful Friends

katib77katib77 member
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So I took my BFF out for Margaritta's for her birthday tonight, just got home.  There is a reason she's a wonderful friend.  We were talking about my IF (as it always comes up at some point when we're out since it is sadly a huge part of my life).  And we called if a fairly early night since she has a one and a half year old, and I know they are thinking about trying for a second soon. 

She asked me "Does it bother you then when friends or people you know get KU?"  I explained that while I might be happy for them I have a little pity party for myself for a moment but what I really hate is patronizing women.  You know the one's I mean.  The one's that blow off IF as if it's nothing.  "Just relax and it will happen."  Oh yeah, like dh's sperm will multiply and swim better if I'm relaxed!  I just love that she listened and understood and I know she will never be like that.  There should be more people that are sensitive and yet open enough to just ask straight out what bothers me and what doesn't.

I have no question, I'm just a bit tipsy of the margaritta's and wanted to give a shout out to friends that "get it".


TTC since July 2009. Dx MFI & LPD. 
IUI#1&2&3 (2011 & 2012) BFN
IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
IVF w/ICSI Oct. 2, 2012 - 13R, 11M, 7F, 1 frozen blast 4BB grade - - - FET Nov 15, 2013
BFP! Beta 1:104 @ 10dp6dt, Beta 2:178 @ 12dp6dt,  beta 3:366 @ 14dp6dt
Saw heartbeat twice before missed M/C at 8w3d on 12/27/13, missing my little angel boy
JUNE 2014 IVF#2;  5R, 2M, 1F Three day transfer 6/7.  Beta 6/18 - BFN
Child Free Now?
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Re: Wonderful Friends

  • ClarissaBuen18ClarissaBuen18 member
    Hey sweetie...I am just here chillin like you. Tipsy also...lol. Well we are taking a 3 month break and DH will be taking the fertilaid for men during that time. I hope it will help his sperm count. I have hope. I hope all is good with you!
    Cherish yesterday, Live today and always Dream for tomorrow!?
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  • katib77katib77 member
    Yeah, DH has been taking Fertility Blend for men since begining of July so about five or six more weeks for us before second SA and I still have hope but I appreciate understanding that it's not just "in my head" as one person had the nerve to tell me, and that my BFF understands that. 

    TTC since July 2009. Dx MFI & LPD. 
    IUI#1&2&3 (2011 & 2012) BFN
    IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
    IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
    IVF w/ICSI Oct. 2, 2012 - 13R, 11M, 7F, 1 frozen blast 4BB grade - - - FET Nov 15, 2013
    BFP! Beta 1:104 @ 10dp6dt, Beta 2:178 @ 12dp6dt,  beta 3:366 @ 14dp6dt
    Saw heartbeat twice before missed M/C at 8w3d on 12/27/13, missing my little angel boy
    JUNE 2014 IVF#2;  5R, 2M, 1F Three day transfer 6/7.  Beta 6/18 - BFN
    Child Free Now?
     S/PAIFW , S/PALW

    My Blog

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  • ClarissaBuen18ClarissaBuen18 member

    I am so happy to hear that you have a freind that can understand that. I will be honest with you I have been lucky enough to live block away from Mari. She is my friend and we text and talk together when we are in need of a friend during TTC break downs.

    I can not wait to hear about your hubby's SA. You have to be sure to let me know on that. Can I tell you something back in 2005 his results were like the worst very little sperm and zero mobility back to back test. And the SA he took this year he had alot better results...15 million and okay mobility. But back in 2009 for 3 months he did take these pills so am I crazy to think it was the pills or was it a fluke on the test back in 2005? I wonder and will find out after these pills...hopefully!

    Cherish yesterday, Live today and always Dream for tomorrow!?
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