I'm debating whether or not we should dedicate a space in the house specifically for the bean's playthings, especially as she gets older and gets more and more toys. My initial vision was that her bedroom would be her playroom (you know, like you see in the pottery barn catalogues), but it turns out that we (mom and dad) hardly like to play in there because its upstairs and we spend most of our days downstairs. Plus when she gets older, I'm thinking I want her playing where I can see her. So, do you have a dedicated "playroom" space? Where in the house is it located? If its in a common area, like the living room, have you just accepted that its going to be overrun with toys?
Re: Do you have a dedicated playroom?
It sounds like our set up is similar. My boys both have their bedroom upstairs, and everything else (including our master bedroom) is downstairs. The only time I'm upstairs is to put them to bed. Their bedrooms are as boring as it gets - books and bed only, no toys or anything else.
Our master bedroom is large, really inefficient wasted space. So, much to my husband's horror, it's become our playroom. All of their toys are down here, and it's where they spend much of their day. Not ideal, but there's really no other area (other than their bedrooms) where we could put the toys. It works for us, and keeps the toys contained in one place rather than all over the house.
We do have a beautiful separate living room that gets no love, and has a door we can keep closed. Thought about making that our playroom, but DH nixed the idea as he really wanted a nice living room on the rare occasion that we need it.
ETA: Our family room is upstairs as well (our whole layout is incredibly inefficient). I rarely use it, and the kids never go in there, and since it's upstairs while everything else is downstairs, we are never up there so it wouldn't work as our playroom (even though that was the original intention). It has since become a mancave and DH hangs out in there.
We have a dedicated playroom (what would be a living room) and there are still toys all.over. We spend the majority of our time at home in the family room or playroom.
Funny enough, there are no toys in the boys' rooms.
Our "playroom" is our family room where we always hang out. The girls do have toys in their rooms, but most of the stuff is in a corner in our family room. We have a little shelf with bins for smaller toys, a big tub for the bigger toys, a round table, a little square table next to their play kitchen and a huge dollhouse that they play with. On another wall is their train table which houses all their Little People stuff. I can see them from the kitchen and it leads right out to the patio where more of their stuff is (easels and scooters). Their coloring books and crayons are in baskets under our coffee table.. so yeah, it's over run with toys. We're lucky that the family room is pretty big, so the couch and TV are on one side, and their stuff is on the other, so we can still watch TV or sit and read without getting conked in the head by a flying toy.
My SIL has her kids playroom upstairs and doesn't really allow toys downstairs and I think it's kinda sad. She's downstairs all the time, and the boys are either parked in front of the TV with her or upstairs alone. If you walked into their house you wouldn't even know they had kids.
Yes and no.
His room is in the process of being completely childproofed so that he can crawl around safely. So there will be some toys in there.
We've got a play area (with a foam mat) in between the couch and the coffee table in the living room.
We also turned the "dining room" (big area of space in the living room) into the play area - that's where his movement mat was (now it's set up as a "couch" in his nursery) and there's a "road" rug and a reading chair and bookshelves with stuffed animals and books on it.
So it's not the entire house, but it's not just one spot. The play area with the rug is where his table and chair set will go when he's old enough and it will always be the designated "kid stuff" area outside of the nursery.
Saying that, however, we padded the coffee table and covered it in chalk cloth. So there's not really any part of the house that isn't kid-friendly ;-)
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99% of DD's toys are stored in her room. We have a one story so toys are just brought out to the great room to play. It's not a big deal and we aren't over run with clutter at the end of the day. The other 1% have somehow ended up in our dining room, which is hardly ideal...but they are bigger toys (trampoline, slide, picnic table) that don't fit in her room nor do I want her on them unsupervised (she is in a BGB). Ultimately they should be stored outside or in the garage but we use them so much we tend to just push them into the dining room so they're out of sight - to us. To our guests, they are right in their face as they enter!
Also her kitchen is in our kitchen.
Things for DS like the swing will be in the great room for as long as he uses it, same with the exersaucer and other big items.
We have a tiny 2 story townhouse, with bedrooms downstairs. Upstairs is just one big room with a tiny kitchen off to the side. I am a no toys in the bedroom mama (he has enough trouble turning off his brain without his toys staring at him in the dark), so all his stuff is in our living space.
We had one tiny shelving thing with bins but it became a pile that couldn't be conqured by a 2 year old so I rearranged our house and put a bookshelf in our dining room with space for all his toys. He has upstairs/daytime books (those that involve a lot of talking/interaction), his basket o' balls, canisters for his cars/hockey men, his painting/art stuff, and blocks all visible for him to pull out and play with as he sees fit. Then when he's done they all go back. It's all plain as day but it works for us. He's home and in our space more than anyone else and I finally realized it was silly to pretend otherwise. We rarely have guests so their comfort or making the house suitable for guests got moved really low on my priority list. His comfort and ease got moved up.
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