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This makes me mad

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Re: This makes me mad

  • Court1Court1
    Whaaat??  Where'd this come from??
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    Bump post secret
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  • jms2005jms2005
    Indifferent This one's got "FH" written all over it.
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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member
    That person is an ignorant asshat.
    BFP 4/23/09. D&E 7/17/09 16W5D. BFP #2 3/10/10. EDD 11/15/10 Babycakes was born 11/5/10! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I can't believe someone would do that. Obviously they are stupid!!!

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    um, seriously?

    now I feel like crapola. 

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • lindsay.loulindsay.lou member

    What the hell does she even mean by "had their chance?"

    Most women I know ttc >35 haven't had a chance until now. The time is perfect NOW. So what?

     

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  • jen629jen629 member
    imagemlmtgg:

    um, seriously?

    now I feel like crapola. 

    I know here I am thinking great I am 39Crying ...I hope that person never endures any problems which leads them to try after 35
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  • jen629jen629 member
    imagelindsay.lou:

    What the hell does she even mean by "had their chance?"

    Most women I know ttc >35 haven't had a chance until now. The time is perfect NOW. So what?

     

    I know I didn't even get married until I was 38  so that means I don't deserve to have a family..wtf???
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  • rabstbmomrabstbmom

    Ooooh, how I could go off on that post, but I'll just leave as PP said--FH for sure!! Only come to think of it, "fertile" isn't the word I have in mind for the F.

    The part about "had their chance" is what really pisses me off. I mean, how is MY having a baby taking away FH's chance at having one?

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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I hate that fvcking site. It's where mean, small minded people who get chased of TB go to vent. The comments about IF alone were all I needed to know, and I think the people who run that site should be ASHAMED of themselves.

    That's not a "secret." That's a shitty_comment from someone who has never (YET) dealt with loss or TTTC. God help them if and when it happens to them, and they face the same insensitivity and ignorance.

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  • PeetiePiePeetiePie
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    I hate that fvcking site. It's where mean, small minded people who get chased of TB go to vent. The comments about IF alone were all I needed to know, and I think the people who run that site should be ASHAMED of themselves.

    That's not a "secret." That's a shitty_comment from someone who has never (YET) dealt with loss or TTTC. God help them if and when it happens to them, and they face the same insensitivity and ignorance.

    Agreed!!

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  • piedpiper07piedpiper07 member
    This is just awful. they are only posting to that site because they know they will be ridiculed and chewed out for saying it here or IRL.
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  • johannaknipjohannaknip

    That might be the worst secret I have ever seen.

    I don't wish TTTC on anyone, but sometimes I am very tempted.

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  • piedpiper07piedpiper07 member

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  • schen0510schen0510
    That is fvcked up in so many ways!
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  • KelinandKevinKelinandKevin member
    imageambrandau2:

    I hate that fvcking site. It's where mean, small minded people who get chased of TB go to vent. The comments about IF alone were all I needed to know, and I think the people who run that site should be ASHAMED of themselves.

    That's not a "secret." That's a shitty_comment from someone who has never (YET) dealt with loss or TTTC. God help them if and when it happens to them, and they face the same insensitivity and ignorance.

    My thoughts exactly!

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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    OMG.  That is infuriating. Angry
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  • michroccmichrocc member

    That shiz really p!sses me off.  I'd honestly like to sit down with that person and ask them why they're so ignorant.  I've heard some of the reasoning and it truly makes me stabby, especially when people throw out the old "Well, if you wait too long you'll be too old when your child grows up" or "Your child won't get to know his/her grandparents because they'll be so old because you waited."

    You know what, a-hole, my mom had me at 21 and died at 33.  None of us, and I do mean NONE OF US, are given any guarantees in this life.  What is this, Logan's Freaking Run? 

    This rampant FH-ery has got to stop.  I hate hate hate hate hate that such stupidity should make any of the wonderful women on this board feel bad about themselves.  

    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    Angry WTH is the matter with people?!
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  • Olive44Olive44 member
    What an ignorant, insensitive thing to say.  And yeah, that's not a secret...it's an idiotic opinion. 
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  • babes12babes12 member
    what?!?!?!?!! that doesnt even make sense.  ugh.  i have no time for ignorant peeps.  assholes!
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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3

    Dear Picture Maker, your opinion doesn't matter.  Suck it!

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  • Orchard27Orchard27 member
    the person who posted that svcks.
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  • cintimcintim
    What a moron. The author most likely starred in MTV's Teen Mom. I don't get the purpose of the bump secret anyway.
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  • Cissi64Cissi64
    I agree with AmBrandau's opinion of the cite and the author.  Must be a FH because anyone who has ever had TTTC knows it doesn't always happen when you want it to.  I guess   I should just be taken out and shot (in her opinion) since very pregnancy I've had (  the one successful and 4 losses) were after I turned 40.  I didn't "put it off"  and I didn't "have" my "chance", that is just when it happend for me.  People really need to just keep their mouths shut and mind their own business.
    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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  • sunshinenvasunshinenva
    Well apparently they have not seen the show "Pregnant at 70" or whatever that show is!  Blah Blah Blah
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    That girl who posted that must be a total fh. I hate that site sometimes.

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  • rjl07rjl07
    Mad doesn't begin to cover it.  Sorry I couldn't accomodate this moron's schedule for TTC. 
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    Some people are just idiots.
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    Well I don't think stupid people should have kids...But they get to...So there!
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