TTC After a Loss

oh facebook, how i hate thee...

So, I log on and what's the first thing I see,:

I have carried a child within my body. I have comforted my baby upon my chest. My body is not magazine perfect, but when I look in the mirror I see a mother, and there is no greater honor or blessing. Make this your status if you are proud to be a MOTHER ?

 and then there is:

We had our 20 week ultra sound yesterday! Baby is healthy & growing, Dr saw the sex of the baby but we still want to be surprised!!

This one doesnt bother me too much b/c this girl is really sweet and said some sweet things to me and sorta gets it. But the first one stung, just a little. 

Re: oh facebook, how i hate thee...

  • I hear ya - I got this one today right away:

    ?**Only an Aunt can hug like a mother,keep secrets like a sister, and love like a friend. If you are an Aunt who loves your nieces and nephews....repost** ? ?

    Yah, I'm an aunt..............but I don't WANT to just be an aunt, I want to be a MOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! grrrr

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  • imagearmysis24:

    So, I log on and what's the first thing I see,:

    I have carried a child within my body. I have comforted my baby upon my chest. My body is not magazine perfect, but when I look in the mirror I see a mother, and there is no greater honor or blessing. Make this your status if you are proud to be a MOTHER ?

     and then there is:

    We had our 20 week ultra sound yesterday! Baby is healthy & growing, Dr saw the sex of the baby but we still want to be surprised!!

    This one doesnt bother me too much b/c this girl is really sweet and said some sweet things to me and sorta gets it. But the first one stung, just a little. 

     

    I had this one yesterday or today too.  :(  It made me sad.

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

  • Not that I'm mad, it just sucks that I can't post this:

     

    imagearmysis24:

    I have carried a child within my body. I have comforted my baby upon my chest. My body is not magazine perfect, but when I look in the mirror I see a mother, and there is no greater honor or blessing. Make this your status if you are proud to be a MOTHER ?

    I know you ladies understand :(

  • I've seen that one several times this week!! FAIL!
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  • imagemandy6418:
    I've seen that one several times this week!! FAIL!

    Me too. I wanted to comment something bitter and snarky, but I kept my fingers shut. 

    ♥ mm/c 2/6/2010 ♥ lydia 4/28/2011 ♥ c/p 10/25/2011 ♥ edd 2/23/2012
  • Those types of copycat status updates are unoriginal and obnoxious!
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  • imagearmysis24:

    Not that I'm mad, it just sucks that I can't post this:

     

    imagearmysis24:

    I have carried a child within my body. I have comforted my baby upon my chest. My body is not magazine perfect, but when I look in the mirror I see a mother, and there is no greater honor or blessing. Make this your status if you are proud to be a MOTHER ?

    I know you ladies understand :(

    I technically COULD post this...  I've carried a child and comforted babies on my chest.  not perfect... blah blah blah...  but NO, society would NOT recognize me as a mother, so, oh well.

    m/c 12/20/09 @ 5 1/2 weeks ~ CP 1/25/09 @ 4 weeks ~ missed m/c 4/6/10 (stopped growing @ 6 weeks, stayed with me until 10) ~Foster parent to B, 9/10-1/12~ Proud Mother of Gage Stephen, born 12/26/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imagearmysis24:

    So, I log on and what's the first thing I see,:

    I have carried a child within my body. I have comforted my baby upon my chest. My body is not magazine perfect, but when I look in the mirror I see a mother, and there is no greater honor or blessing. Make this your status if you are proud to be a MOTHER ?

     and then there is:

    We had our 20 week ultra sound yesterday! Baby is healthy & growing, Dr saw the sex of the baby but we still want to be surprised!!

    This one doesnt bother me too much b/c this girl is really sweet and said some sweet things to me and sorta gets it. But the first one stung, just a little. 

    These Facebook posts that people copy and paste are just stupid, but I did want to say that you are a mother.  ((Hugs))

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    Mom of THREE girls!!!

    Pg #1 - mc - May 2007
    Pg #2 - Sweet baby girl #1 born Oct. 2008! 
    Pg #3 - mc - June 2010
    Pg #4 - Sweet baby girl #2 born April 2011!
    Pg #5 - Sweet baby girl #3 born Jan. 2014!
    APS/MTHFR- Lovenox


     
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