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I need a whole lot of motivation

CarrieLeigh84CarrieLeigh84 member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
I feel very out of sorts these past couple of days, and had a few realizations yesterday that zapped any sort of motivation I had. I hate getting in moods like this. Any tips on how to cheer the fvck up? Or get motivated?
Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
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Re: I need a whole lot of motivation

  • Scout05Scout05 member
    Booze?
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  • CarrieLeigh84CarrieLeigh84 member

    imageambrandau2:
    Booze?

    It's 7:58am here. I'm sure if I started drinking now, I'd be wasted in an hour and a half, which would make for a very loooong work day.

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member

    i have percoset.

    and goldfish crackers.

     

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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member

    imageambrandau2:
    Booze?

    Yeah, I think that's the best advice I have, too.

    Sorry, Carrie.  I hope it gets better...

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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    imageambrandau2:
    Booze?

    Shoot...Allison took my idea...
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    A new eyeliner or haircut?  Most of the time that works for me.
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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  • Mocha GirlMocha Girl

    Turn on your favorite song and rock it out! I do this when I'm in the car and the looks on some faces crack me up... You'll never see those people again, so who the eff cares!

    (((hugs)))

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  • EntropicEponaEntropicEpona member
    imageMocha Girl:

    Turn on your favorite song and rock it out! I do this when I'm in the car and the looks on some faces crack me up... You'll never see those people again, so who the eff cares!

    (((hugs)))

    Yeah, never underestimate the healing, ass-kicking, power of music. Of course, a little retail therapy never hurts, either. Or a new haircut.

    I hope you find whatever motivation you need! I'm bad with it myself.

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


    Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!

    BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)

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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member
    imageShellShockedMama:

    i have percoset.

    and goldfish crackers.

     

    Welcome to the world, Baby Grr!

    My Blog

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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member
    imageShellShockedMama:

    i have percoset.

    and goldfish crackers.

     

    I prefer a little something called carisoprodal.  And coffee.  Nothing like muscle relaxers and uppers to start your day.

     

    Clearly, we are a TON of help, aren't we?  ;)

    Good loud music on an iPod?

    Welcome to the world, Baby Grr!

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I either turn up the music really loud and sing along or go shopping or both.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

    my blog

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  • maceymay1816maceymay1816 member
    Fvck and booze usually try booze before the fvck so you can thoroughly enjoy yourself.  I find that fvcking really gives me lots of energy and when I feel connected emotionally/physically to DH I feel like I can take on the world.
    Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
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