Breastfeeding

How was breastfeeding for you

 

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Re: How was breastfeeding for you

  • I was a little conflicted on what to vote.  BF was easier than I thought in the beginning, but I have a very fast letdown and DS would choke and just was not happy.  He would scream while nursing, it was very hard on us both.  This is part of the reason why I switched to EP. 
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  • With DS#1, it was a horrific experience marked by bad latches, low supply, and DS#1's failure to gain weight adequately that left emotional scars I still bear 2 years later.

    With DS#2, it's actually working the way it is supposed to - good latch, apparently a good supply, DS#2 is gaining appropriately as of our last weight check.  I'm still waiting for the wheels to fall off and for things to go south the way they did with DS#1 though.

  • I knew it would be hard and I thought I had prepared. However, dealing with a LO who didn't gain weight at his two week was so much harder to face. I am lucky that my supply rebounded quickly, but it'll be awhile before I can relax and trust the process.
  • I voted that I needed help, but it's also much harder than I thought it would be. Still struggling with supply issues, weak suck, nipple shield, pumping, etc. Hoping it will get better soon...
  • *** I voted easier than I thought *** BUT... Now that I am back at work it is harder than I thought. DD prefers the bottle and by the time I'm done working a 9 hour day I am just not up for the struggle of trying to get her to latch, so I have become pretty much an EPer (not by choice). Plus, not to mention the hassle in lugging my pump into work every day and struggling to keep my supply up.

    Needless to say... we are beginning to wean. But BFing was one of the most enjoyable parts of becoming a mommy, I must admit!!!

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    I voted that I needed help, but it's also much harder than I thought it would be. Still struggling with supply issues, weak suck, nipple shield, pumping, etc. Hoping it will get better soon...

    Aww... keep up the hard work... it's so worth it!

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  • Physically, it was about as hard as I thought, or maybe easier.  What was difficult (still is, actually) is the time commitment and responsibility it puts on me.  No one else can feed her, so I'm up for every feeding, and I can't leave her for more than an hour without pumping a bottle first.  I used to be extremely independent, so that has really been difficult.
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  • Initially, harder than I thought. AND I needed help from a good LC and a nipple shield. But now it's easier than I ever thought it would be! I used to love pumping because it would give me a break from the nipple pain of nursing ... now I hate pumping and look forward to getting home from work to nurse.
  • It was not easy at first but it was not hard.  I guess I consider myself lucky.  We only had a latch issue the first few days but I was still in the hospital so I was able to see a LC all three days.  She gave me so many tips and tricks and advice.  They are wonderful!  The hard part now is battling thrush, it stinks, I want it gone.

      I am now starting to pump to get my stash up for when I go out of town and work.  So I am really scared on how that is going to effect my supply and EBF.  I am also scared on when I go back to work, I am a NICU RN so finding time may be hard.  But I absolutely LOVE it and I never thought I would.

  • It has been way harder than I thought and we're still needing help.  The first week I got cracked nipples.  Then when DS was 8 days old I got mastitis.  My supply dropped and at 2 weeks he had only gained 2 ozs.  so we were told to supplement.  I ended up pumping so we could supplement with EBM.  Meanwhile we were told he had a tight frenulum/tongue tie.  When we asked the pedi about it he said in his experience it's almost never a problem, so we didn't pursue fixing it.  Week 3 we met with an LC who thought the tongue tie was the primary source of our problems (DS could only get about an ounc ein 30 min of nursing).  So for that last week I've been nursing then pumping to keep up my supply.  We met with a pedi ENT last Thurs who agreed his frenulum was tight and recommended clippling it, which we did.  There seems to be some improvement in his nursing but it's hard to tell for sure.  The whole feeding process takes around an hour and DS is eating every 2 hours.  Luckily he sleeps pretty well at night, but I'm wiped out. 

     

    We have another weight check tomorrow and then following up with the LC on Sunday.  Hoping he is able to nurse better than an ounce now.  I really don't want to have to switch to the "it didn't work for me" category.

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    Physically, it was about as hard as I thought, or maybe easier.  What was difficult (still is, actually) is the time commitment and responsibility it puts on me.  No one else can feed her, so I'm up for every feeding, and I can't leave her for more than an hour without pumping a bottle first.  I used to be extremely independent, so that has really been difficult.

    i voted easier because i thought it would be harder for me to get a good latch and establish supply but the above comment about the time commitment and  that only i can feed him has been more difficult than i realized.     

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  • I needed help with breastfeeding, but I am so glad that I stuck it out.  We had a poor latch at first which meant that I ended up with traumatized nipples.  It was awful to the point where I would cry when DS would want to eat but I was determined to keep at it. Once the latch was corrected (by a fantastic LC) and his weight gain was consistent I started to relax and things are going well.  My advice is get help before you need it.  Yes, breastfeeding is meant to be a natural process, but how many of us have watched someone nurse well enough to understand how to do it?  Read up, talk to friends and family members who have done it and get in touch with an LC before your delivery date if possible.  It is SO worth it!
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