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Thanks alot cemetary!

So dh I had a cousin's birthday party all day yesterday, we decided to stop by the cemetary and make sure her spot still looked nice.  First off, the gravestone hasn't been put down yet, so I need to call the monument place and make sure it's coming.  I definitely don't anymore delay than necessary.  Then,  her spot was all grown up with weeds.  Now it has been about 6 weeks since we've gone to her spot and spent some time there.  It's an hour away, and I don't like to take ds with us.  So ds and I got down on our knees and started weeding her spot and now it looks nice again.  It'll look way better when the stone is at her place.

I couldn't help but think yesterday, when a relative was talking about having her baby in Sept,  that I shouldn't have to be calling to check on a gravestone.  I should be sleep deprived, and trying to breastfeed.  Life is so unfair!


Re: Thanks alot cemetary!

  • ((hugs)) so sorry
  • I'm so sorry, you are right.  It is so unfair.  :-(  ((hugs))
    TTC since January 2010
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    Chemical pregnancies 12/2/10, 1/3/11, and 2/7/11.
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  • First off I am so sorry and I agree with you that life just isn't fair at all. I went to my first baby shower yesterday since my loss and all I could think about was how my baby shower would have went and how my sister would have decorated etc... ugh. I just want to crawl in a hole, you can come with me if you would like :)
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  • I am so sorry that you had to deal with that. It is completely unfair.

    I can't stop thinking about what would be going on now if we hadn't lost our Sylvie - I'd have a big belly and would be planning a baby shower instead of planning my baby's memorial service. It's all so unfair.

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  • I am so sorry.  ((big hugs))

    Our precious angel Ella Christine 5/10/10-5/11/10

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  • I'm so sorry.

    You're right:  it's so unfair.

    Earlier today I saw a woman with a baby bump about the size mine should be now.  That's all I could think about as I stared and stared at her belly, then got teary.

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